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2011年8月4日星期四
I am obsessed with my mom...?
-I neve go out late because i know my mom is home alone.. me and my mom are SO close and we are best friends, even though only my other best friend knows the real me, and my mom doesnt even know the real me i still feel we are so close. i would leave her side for anything. please help..No. You are not obsessed with your mum. I am close to my mum as well. When someone invites me to hang out with them on weekends or holidays, I always ask my mum if she is working on that day because i wouldn't want her to be home without me. She is also my best friend even though she doesn't know my real side. She says that she never wants me to go somewhere while she is still at home but I do want to go to places and I only stay home because of my mum. You would leave her side for anything? That's a bit mean. I wouldn't ever leave my mum's side unless its school or something important. I promised her many years ago that I would live with her until she died and that's a promise. If you really are obsessed with your mum then you should act like me but you don't so you are not obsessed with her.Cherish the relationship with your mother. My mother died when I was 11 (I am now 18) and it hurts more than anything, still to this day. She's gotta understand that you have a life to live though. Let her know you love her and don't let her forget it. Don't worry that you're overly obsessed, she's family and you two need each other.
My boyfriend never has time for me anymore! please give advice?
-My boyfriend & i are pretty young. He's 17 & working to save up for a car. Befor when are relationshipp was great he would say its so i could see you all the time but i dont think its a possibility when he's always working. I havent seen him in 3 months. He would usually come see me as much as he could by taking his moms car. He doesnt even try anymore & i dnt kno what to do or think. Please give advice & thank you.You should dump him if he doesn't have time for you. Boyfriends and girlfriends spend time together thats why they are together but if they aren't then they aren't suppose to be together and thats sorta like your relationship so please take my advice to a happy life and dump that guy and find someone else.he could be sidetracked by work, etc. But to stop communicating more than likely means he found something or someone else to be more interested in. Talk to him about it and if he seems sincere give it a little more time but don't wait forever, if he has moved on you should be able to as well.
He gave up on you, people change like that, its sad... but all of a sudden he felt tired of seeing you all the time and have to drive his way there to see you... guys like that they don't love you and would do what it take for the two.. should move on... i know its hard but you kno... you will be the one that hurts and waiting for nothin :( be strong ok? you can do it :)
Maybe he has someone who is readily available when he is off work. Getting your first car is really important to some guys, so he's willing to take what's available instead of you. Boy, that seems harsh, but it's probably the truth.
Tell him you'll make him a sandwich. It'll go a long way!
Dump the *****. He's clearly not worthy of your time.
long distance relationships never work ......so think about it nd if necessary move on with ur life......u r too young to be committed in a serious relationship. You will find plenty of better guys in the future.
talk bout it w him communication is key
He gave up on you, people change like that, its sad... but all of a sudden he felt tired of seeing you all the time and have to drive his way there to see you... guys like that they don't love you and would do what it take for the two.. should move on... i know its hard but you kno... you will be the one that hurts and waiting for nothin :( be strong ok? you can do it :)
Maybe he has someone who is readily available when he is off work. Getting your first car is really important to some guys, so he's willing to take what's available instead of you. Boy, that seems harsh, but it's probably the truth.
Tell him you'll make him a sandwich. It'll go a long way!
Dump the *****. He's clearly not worthy of your time.
long distance relationships never work ......so think about it nd if necessary move on with ur life......u r too young to be committed in a serious relationship. You will find plenty of better guys in the future.
talk bout it w him communication is key
My friends don't bother speaking to me during the holidays?
-It's 2 weeks in the summer holidays, and lately my main friends haven't spoken to me, I have a few other friends which I talk to normally but i'm much much closer to my main friends.
It seems i'm always the one to have to say Hi to start a conversation on Facebook, or in real life, if I don't start the conversation they could go all holidays without talking to me.
I'm fed up of looking out for people, contacting them first, when they don't return the favour. :-(
I see my main friends on fb talking to eachother all the time, and i just feel excluded.
I think i'm not going to talk to them, but hang out with my other friends & when i see them next at school I will tell them?
What do you think I should do?
Thankyou for your time! :-)If you feel it is always you making the effort, then it may be a good idea to back away for a bit and wait till you do see them or they make some effort!
It is no bad reflection of you if they are not getting in contact! It may just mean that they think of you as a good friend and reliable so know you are likely to speak to them, or it could be they just get wrapped up in other things and are a bit thoughtless to your feelings sometimes!
To see if they are worth you putting your effort into, I think you have got the right idea! As all you are doing is carrying on with your life and you are not actually blanking them, so you are doing nothing wrong!
If your other friends are nicer and stay in contact more, then I think it is a good idea for you to see them and stay in contact with them more!
Facebook is not always good, as if you were sat there with these girls and not at a computer they would not be ignoring you, so if they are good friends in real life that is the main thing!
I think you are doing the right thing, as you can then put your effort into your friends that make an effort with you! These girls may get back in contact with you before school if the penny drops they have not spoken to you for a while and they will have to put the effort in!
If they do not, you have nothing to worry about! As when yo usee them at school you can be friendly and pleased to see them + if any of them do ask why you had not got in contact you can explain you were busy with your other friends and had other things going on! You caould also add in a nice way 'You should have sent me a text to catch up!' or something along those lines!
I hope you enjoy the rest of your holiday with your other friends! The girls who you make the effort with probably do not realise how you feel and take for granted you will contact them! So this may do some good to put your effort into others and see what happens!
Hope this helps xxxxxxxxxxxxI am the same way..... But the opposite, for some reason people talk to me when I don't like Talking to people. For the people who don't talk to me, I leave them alone or give a simple "nod" or a "chin raise" when I see them in person. If my friends want to talk to me then they say hi first, if they dont I leave em alone. I say you do the same, if they want to say hi they will say hi. But it doesn't hurt to say hi first every once and a while
Im having the same problems as you!
The best way is to tell them how you feel. Maybe its just that they need some space. Give them some time and when you get back to school, you might find that they're a lot friendlier, and you guys can sort things out then. =) hope it helped
You should let them get on with it, if they don't make any effort with you then don't make any with them. They aren't worth worrying about, especially when you have other friends who do respect you. I hope you have a nice holiday.
I totally understand that behaviour. Well, honestly, you should just leave them alone and stick to those who truly like you. Those other friends don't deserve you :)
Never feel bad, kay? :D
I have the same problem! But eventually they talk to me but if they are becoming more distant then open your mind to new friends and wait a week when school gets back in to see what happens :) hope I helped
This has happened to me once but I just ignored the until they kept calling me, in the meantime do something you would enjoy which would help you forget about your friends for abit.
Well they don't sound very much like main friends to me. You should just dump them and stick with your other friends
Dump em and if a couple or sum comes back then they r ur true friends. Stay occupid with the 1s u talk to now
same thing here
they're not very nice x
This happens to me :( I have alot of friends but i dont really hang out with anyone outside of school except for my BEST FREIND. i only really talk to her outside of school but i always get jealous of her because she seems to have this great social life outside of school and I don't. BUT last week i decided i was gonna get closer to all my friends and i think you should try with me! Just try and talk to them more. Even if its just online :) start talking to them casually and eventually they will want to talk to you :) hope this helped :)
It seems i'm always the one to have to say Hi to start a conversation on Facebook, or in real life, if I don't start the conversation they could go all holidays without talking to me.
I'm fed up of looking out for people, contacting them first, when they don't return the favour. :-(
I see my main friends on fb talking to eachother all the time, and i just feel excluded.
I think i'm not going to talk to them, but hang out with my other friends & when i see them next at school I will tell them?
What do you think I should do?
Thankyou for your time! :-)If you feel it is always you making the effort, then it may be a good idea to back away for a bit and wait till you do see them or they make some effort!
It is no bad reflection of you if they are not getting in contact! It may just mean that they think of you as a good friend and reliable so know you are likely to speak to them, or it could be they just get wrapped up in other things and are a bit thoughtless to your feelings sometimes!
To see if they are worth you putting your effort into, I think you have got the right idea! As all you are doing is carrying on with your life and you are not actually blanking them, so you are doing nothing wrong!
If your other friends are nicer and stay in contact more, then I think it is a good idea for you to see them and stay in contact with them more!
Facebook is not always good, as if you were sat there with these girls and not at a computer they would not be ignoring you, so if they are good friends in real life that is the main thing!
I think you are doing the right thing, as you can then put your effort into your friends that make an effort with you! These girls may get back in contact with you before school if the penny drops they have not spoken to you for a while and they will have to put the effort in!
If they do not, you have nothing to worry about! As when yo usee them at school you can be friendly and pleased to see them + if any of them do ask why you had not got in contact you can explain you were busy with your other friends and had other things going on! You caould also add in a nice way 'You should have sent me a text to catch up!' or something along those lines!
I hope you enjoy the rest of your holiday with your other friends! The girls who you make the effort with probably do not realise how you feel and take for granted you will contact them! So this may do some good to put your effort into others and see what happens!
Hope this helps xxxxxxxxxxxxI am the same way..... But the opposite, for some reason people talk to me when I don't like Talking to people. For the people who don't talk to me, I leave them alone or give a simple "nod" or a "chin raise" when I see them in person. If my friends want to talk to me then they say hi first, if they dont I leave em alone. I say you do the same, if they want to say hi they will say hi. But it doesn't hurt to say hi first every once and a while
Im having the same problems as you!
The best way is to tell them how you feel. Maybe its just that they need some space. Give them some time and when you get back to school, you might find that they're a lot friendlier, and you guys can sort things out then. =) hope it helped
You should let them get on with it, if they don't make any effort with you then don't make any with them. They aren't worth worrying about, especially when you have other friends who do respect you. I hope you have a nice holiday.
I totally understand that behaviour. Well, honestly, you should just leave them alone and stick to those who truly like you. Those other friends don't deserve you :)
Never feel bad, kay? :D
I have the same problem! But eventually they talk to me but if they are becoming more distant then open your mind to new friends and wait a week when school gets back in to see what happens :) hope I helped
This has happened to me once but I just ignored the until they kept calling me, in the meantime do something you would enjoy which would help you forget about your friends for abit.
Well they don't sound very much like main friends to me. You should just dump them and stick with your other friends
Dump em and if a couple or sum comes back then they r ur true friends. Stay occupid with the 1s u talk to now
same thing here
they're not very nice x
This happens to me :( I have alot of friends but i dont really hang out with anyone outside of school except for my BEST FREIND. i only really talk to her outside of school but i always get jealous of her because she seems to have this great social life outside of school and I don't. BUT last week i decided i was gonna get closer to all my friends and i think you should try with me! Just try and talk to them more. Even if its just online :) start talking to them casually and eventually they will want to talk to you :) hope this helped :)
Is it not normal for me to not have any REAL friends?
-Over the past few months, I have been in and out of depression over the fact that I have no REAL friends. I have acquaintances, a wonderful boyfriend, and a best friend who lives a 5 hour car drive away... but there is no one I have to call a friend who lives close by me. No one to go shopping with, no one to visit or visit me, no one to help feel better or to help me feel better, no one to go on trips with, no one to have adventures with.... just no one. I'm not saying that I don't appreciate what I do have, because I do, but sometimes I wonder if I am not normal because of this. Sometimes, I feel like people have to have more friends than this. More people that they can rely on... I don't know, what say you others out there? And if it makes a difference, I am 24 :/19 year old. Been n and out of depression. Don;t have a best friend. Life is good.
Back in childhood, I had one best friend for each class. Then, when I grew old, 18 in my case, I realized that I don't need a best friend. Honestly, best friend is a very blown up concept. You say Monica, Phoebe and Rachel in Friends and you though best friends are as vital as cloth, food and shelter. And then , SATC made things worse. Carrie made all the girls feel like a pair of Manolo Bhalniks and a bitching session with a girlfriend can set everything in order. The truth is far from all this ostentatious display of affection.
My mom is 60, she can't name a best friend. She has no one to go shopping with or to call in the middle if the night. But, she has been successifull, a career lady, she never had regrets about not giving enough time to friends. I had a best friend. This was two years ago. Now she is 2,000 km away and being best friends any longer doesnt really make sense.
I have a boyfriend now and I totally love him. In a way, he is my best friend now. Going shopping with, anywhere or visiting people is a social drudgery. I feel stuffed when I go shopping with people. More often than not, I end up spending MY money on what THEY think is good for ME. Feel good lady! A best friend or real friends is just a social conformity like being tall, tiny-waisted and fair. Forget it, your life is good. Dont brood over it anymore.Well that's good that you have a best friend, even though she's about 5 hours away..maybe you could try to be better friends with your acquaintances. If you want friends, you need to show yourself as friendly. If you talk to them more, and express that you would like to get to know them better, you will become better friends with them, I can pretty much guarantee you.
Yes, this is normal. In reality, people only have one or two "true bestfriends". If people claim to have more, they're bullsh**ing themselves. By around 24 though, most people have figured this out. I suppose better late than never.
Na thats not so unusual..especially if you live in a small town, or dont work outside the home. Lets be honest, its hard to trust people nowadays so it takes a lot of time & work to build true friendships. Just be happy with what you DO have and try not to dwell on it. Look at it this way, you dont have to deal with near the drama or stress you would if you had a bunch of people depending on you to take their calls at 3a.m., or popping in on you unexpectingly, asking you pay for gas and rides to go on those trips/adventures/shopping with
Back in childhood, I had one best friend for each class. Then, when I grew old, 18 in my case, I realized that I don't need a best friend. Honestly, best friend is a very blown up concept. You say Monica, Phoebe and Rachel in Friends and you though best friends are as vital as cloth, food and shelter. And then , SATC made things worse. Carrie made all the girls feel like a pair of Manolo Bhalniks and a bitching session with a girlfriend can set everything in order. The truth is far from all this ostentatious display of affection.
My mom is 60, she can't name a best friend. She has no one to go shopping with or to call in the middle if the night. But, she has been successifull, a career lady, she never had regrets about not giving enough time to friends. I had a best friend. This was two years ago. Now she is 2,000 km away and being best friends any longer doesnt really make sense.
I have a boyfriend now and I totally love him. In a way, he is my best friend now. Going shopping with, anywhere or visiting people is a social drudgery. I feel stuffed when I go shopping with people. More often than not, I end up spending MY money on what THEY think is good for ME. Feel good lady! A best friend or real friends is just a social conformity like being tall, tiny-waisted and fair. Forget it, your life is good. Dont brood over it anymore.Well that's good that you have a best friend, even though she's about 5 hours away..maybe you could try to be better friends with your acquaintances. If you want friends, you need to show yourself as friendly. If you talk to them more, and express that you would like to get to know them better, you will become better friends with them, I can pretty much guarantee you.
Yes, this is normal. In reality, people only have one or two "true bestfriends". If people claim to have more, they're bullsh**ing themselves. By around 24 though, most people have figured this out. I suppose better late than never.
Na thats not so unusual..especially if you live in a small town, or dont work outside the home. Lets be honest, its hard to trust people nowadays so it takes a lot of time & work to build true friendships. Just be happy with what you DO have and try not to dwell on it. Look at it this way, you dont have to deal with near the drama or stress you would if you had a bunch of people depending on you to take their calls at 3a.m., or popping in on you unexpectingly, asking you pay for gas and rides to go on those trips/adventures/shopping with
What does this mean?? 10 points?
-i was playing a texting game with a boy and i asked him if he was a freak. He said i handle my business. What does this mean? Also he was asking me the freakiest questions like are you a virgin(i said yea),then he said when do u want to lose it,and are you a freak. What does all this mean? Especially the i handle my business thing? Im not sure if age matters but im 16 and he is 18. I started the game but he started with the freaky questions.My first question was when do you go back to school, then he came with that then i came back with those same type of questions.Let me start by asking a few questions too. I know your ages (or what he says is his age), but do you KNOW this guy, like face-to-face? Are you 'real world' friends or just texting?
The fact that he jumped straight from going back to school (your question) to virginity (sex) would make me a little suspicious of him. I know us guys, especially when we are teenage guys, are able to turn any conversation towards sex at times, but that was pretty quick. By the way, pat on the back for keeping and admitting to your virginity! I think the guy might actually be propositioning you for some kind of sex stuff (based on the 'do you want to lose your virginity' question) and are you a freak sounds like he may not be thinking about the common male/female sex experience.
My advice, back off from him. At the very least, be very careful and aware of what you may be getting into. And especially, if you do not know this dude, do no agree to meet him or go anywhere with him, especially if no one else knows about it!Don't tell him anything. Especially if he knows what your name is and where u live. He's trying to get personal information from you.
if ur not gay, he probably is unless its da opposite or both of u are,.
hes proably a sex offender
H:onestly I wouldn't do anything with him like I can't say not to have sex with him but thatKs all he probably wants to have sex with you and then he will leave or talk to you for a while so he can still used you for whenever its a good time for him. Other reasons why not to have sex yet I'm a teen mom I always said oh I'm not going to get pregnant and here I am with a 1 year old baby I don't regret it but it would have all turned out better after I graduated and got my life together you know .
Second for him saying I handle my buusiness he might mean he knows what he's doing when he has sex , or he's using girls to have sex , I can't stop you from doing it if you were thinking about it but if 8 was you 8 would wait and if not be careful. CONDOMS break and things happen sometimes . Sometimes things don't happen for a while because your not ready. I had sex but was I ready for the consequences well good luck girl think what's better for you ... Any questions feel free to ask
All he wants is in your pants n trust me you dnt want that. It may seem that way cuz u want him to like you but once you give it up to him, he will be gone! That's all men! And some females! but as far as the freak thing goes ignore the question that is so stupid. How would you know your a freak if your a virgin? And the I handle me business part, he sounds ignorant trying to play you dumb cuz your a kid. Besides your too young to even be thinkin bout this stuff or talking about it for that matter. Wat has this world come to?
The fact that he jumped straight from going back to school (your question) to virginity (sex) would make me a little suspicious of him. I know us guys, especially when we are teenage guys, are able to turn any conversation towards sex at times, but that was pretty quick. By the way, pat on the back for keeping and admitting to your virginity! I think the guy might actually be propositioning you for some kind of sex stuff (based on the 'do you want to lose your virginity' question) and are you a freak sounds like he may not be thinking about the common male/female sex experience.
My advice, back off from him. At the very least, be very careful and aware of what you may be getting into. And especially, if you do not know this dude, do no agree to meet him or go anywhere with him, especially if no one else knows about it!Don't tell him anything. Especially if he knows what your name is and where u live. He's trying to get personal information from you.
if ur not gay, he probably is unless its da opposite or both of u are,.
hes proably a sex offender
H:onestly I wouldn't do anything with him like I can't say not to have sex with him but thatKs all he probably wants to have sex with you and then he will leave or talk to you for a while so he can still used you for whenever its a good time for him. Other reasons why not to have sex yet I'm a teen mom I always said oh I'm not going to get pregnant and here I am with a 1 year old baby I don't regret it but it would have all turned out better after I graduated and got my life together you know .
Second for him saying I handle my buusiness he might mean he knows what he's doing when he has sex , or he's using girls to have sex , I can't stop you from doing it if you were thinking about it but if 8 was you 8 would wait and if not be careful. CONDOMS break and things happen sometimes . Sometimes things don't happen for a while because your not ready. I had sex but was I ready for the consequences well good luck girl think what's better for you ... Any questions feel free to ask
All he wants is in your pants n trust me you dnt want that. It may seem that way cuz u want him to like you but once you give it up to him, he will be gone! That's all men! And some females! but as far as the freak thing goes ignore the question that is so stupid. How would you know your a freak if your a virgin? And the I handle me business part, he sounds ignorant trying to play you dumb cuz your a kid. Besides your too young to even be thinkin bout this stuff or talking about it for that matter. Wat has this world come to?
I Don't Know What to Make of This?
-Some friends and I went out of town to enjoy a 3-day event. As with any event, it usually starts around a certain time, so it was important to get there, punctual-wise. I and another friend were waiting in the hotel lobby for the rest of the gang. Well 3 other friends were taking their time coming downstairs. I got upset and started venting to the friend, she seemed to understand, and the day went on w/all of us having a good time. She (the friend waiting with me in the lobby) calls me to tell me that she was 'dissapointed' in me for 'getting upset', and that I shouldn't expect "people to do what I want them to do". So, now, she's distancing herself from me. Was I wrong to get upset? I don't know what to do. Any advice?No,you weren't!
explain to them that when there is a certain time that the event starts,all of them should be at their time.you dont want people to do what you want them to do.you just got upset because they didnt come at their time. also put more emphasis on that when you have "a date"(even if it is to go all together at the evend) you should be always at your time.if you dont,your friends wont feel able to trust you so your friendship will be destroyed.
I hope i helped:)
explain to them that when there is a certain time that the event starts,all of them should be at their time.you dont want people to do what you want them to do.you just got upset because they didnt come at their time. also put more emphasis on that when you have "a date"(even if it is to go all together at the evend) you should be always at your time.if you dont,your friends wont feel able to trust you so your friendship will be destroyed.
I hope i helped:)
I feel so stupid now and like I wasted so much time?
-I held a grudge with a friend for basically a year. She went away to study abroad for the first semester so we didn't talk much because of that. When she came back for the fall, I could've said something but I waited until after we graduated that semester. I pretty much ignored her and kept our interaction at a "hi" and "bye" level. Now that I've confronted her, she is going around spreading my personal business to her friends and making me look like the worst person in the world. I apologized for ignoring her but she didn't apologize for the initial things she did that hurt me. I can't stop thinking about this situation. It really blows. Was I too extreme in waiting so long to tell her? Is this abnormal? I'm working on being more forgiving and not holding grudges but it's just hard for me.You know what? Ignoring her does NOT give her the right to be telling everyone your business. That's just low class. And anyone with any intelligence and class is looking at her when she's being vicious like that and thinking exactly what I am, which is that she is out of line. I'm sure that most of them don't think you're a horrible person, unless they're really THAT impressionable, at which point, who cares abut someone so stupid.
People grow apart. You haven't done anything wrong from what I can see, and even though you ignoring her may have hurt her feelings, that does not give her the right to throw all your f*cking trust in her out the window.
You're only human. But when someone thinks that when you fudge a little bit and all of a sudden they have license to be a f*cking b*tch, that's a different story.life is too short to regret anything , the past is the past , try fixing things with her, tell her u were just to hurt to the point that u couldnt stand talking to her . tell her life is too short to be mad at anyone & that we all make mistakes . no ones perfect .
It is never good to hold a gruge or what she did to you, both of you went too far
I like your user name.
I encourage you to not even bother thinking that she is wrong, and going low. People normally say that forgiving puts you in a higher place, but I don't look at it that way. Look at forgiveness as something you know was hard for you to do, but are now happy to do it. It doesn't have to elevate you above others (this can lead to pride), it's just right and of God. If your endeavor to change is (as I hope) something to do with believing in Christ, just consider that you actually love to do right, which you hated, but now love because you honor your Lord.
People grow apart. You haven't done anything wrong from what I can see, and even though you ignoring her may have hurt her feelings, that does not give her the right to throw all your f*cking trust in her out the window.
You're only human. But when someone thinks that when you fudge a little bit and all of a sudden they have license to be a f*cking b*tch, that's a different story.life is too short to regret anything , the past is the past , try fixing things with her, tell her u were just to hurt to the point that u couldnt stand talking to her . tell her life is too short to be mad at anyone & that we all make mistakes . no ones perfect .
It is never good to hold a gruge or what she did to you, both of you went too far
I like your user name.
I encourage you to not even bother thinking that she is wrong, and going low. People normally say that forgiving puts you in a higher place, but I don't look at it that way. Look at forgiveness as something you know was hard for you to do, but are now happy to do it. It doesn't have to elevate you above others (this can lead to pride), it's just right and of God. If your endeavor to change is (as I hope) something to do with believing in Christ, just consider that you actually love to do right, which you hated, but now love because you honor your Lord.
Falling in love with my best friend. Does he feel it to?
-Okay so I realize that this question might be a little long. Okay so I have been best friends with this boy for about 2 years now. We have known each other though since we were 12, but anyways. I know he has liked me in the past about a year ago, but neither of us did anything. But he his back from college this summer and this summer is so much different than the last. He goes to college about two hours away and I am still in our home town.
See we have never really hung out alone ever until this summer. We always hang out with our big group of friends. Well this summer he has come over to my house a couple times and I have gone over to his too. Don't take this the wrong way, but we usually watch movies in his bedroom and we end up falling asleep. I wake up and leave before his parents get the wrong impression of me. Not that they would care because they have known me for a really long time, but I didn't want them thinking we were doing anything when we aren't. At one of my friends parties at the begining of the summer someone told him to pull me aside and kiss me. My girl friend told me that he was going to do this and he attempted to pull me aside many times that night, but I didn't want him to kiss me on a sort of dare while he was a little tipsy.
See the problem is though that he is a naturally flirty guy. He flirts with all his girl friends and it's hard to know if I am any different. I have liked him for a year and a half now and it is going to be so much harder to see him leave again for college without me saying anything because I think I might be falling in love with him. It's not like I never get to see him during the year because he visits all the time, but I'm not sure what to do.
Any help is much appreciated!Thats what happens in most situations like yours, best friends always end up liking each other. I would say that he likes you too but im not sure, i mean if he really takes the time to come visit i would say he definitely likes you too unless he really really cares for you. I think that you should tell him how you feel about him because you might regret it, maybe his waiting for you to say something because his too shy or thinks that you might back off. So i think you should just tell him the way you feel :)DONT DO IT! I was best friends with a boy for nearly 8 years. When we got older we started to well "Play doctor" and eventually I fell completely in love with him. We always talked like we where dating but when he was single I would be dating someone and the other way around. Eventually I told him I loved him and wanted to be with him. He told me the same thing but we just couldn't yet because he had a gf. Well after that things started getting awkward I would be crying over him and missing him wanting him, and he started getting creeped out I guess. We haven't seen eachother in about 2 years and I miss his friendship more then anything and I wish I could take everything back.
See we have never really hung out alone ever until this summer. We always hang out with our big group of friends. Well this summer he has come over to my house a couple times and I have gone over to his too. Don't take this the wrong way, but we usually watch movies in his bedroom and we end up falling asleep. I wake up and leave before his parents get the wrong impression of me. Not that they would care because they have known me for a really long time, but I didn't want them thinking we were doing anything when we aren't. At one of my friends parties at the begining of the summer someone told him to pull me aside and kiss me. My girl friend told me that he was going to do this and he attempted to pull me aside many times that night, but I didn't want him to kiss me on a sort of dare while he was a little tipsy.
See the problem is though that he is a naturally flirty guy. He flirts with all his girl friends and it's hard to know if I am any different. I have liked him for a year and a half now and it is going to be so much harder to see him leave again for college without me saying anything because I think I might be falling in love with him. It's not like I never get to see him during the year because he visits all the time, but I'm not sure what to do.
Any help is much appreciated!Thats what happens in most situations like yours, best friends always end up liking each other. I would say that he likes you too but im not sure, i mean if he really takes the time to come visit i would say he definitely likes you too unless he really really cares for you. I think that you should tell him how you feel about him because you might regret it, maybe his waiting for you to say something because his too shy or thinks that you might back off. So i think you should just tell him the way you feel :)DONT DO IT! I was best friends with a boy for nearly 8 years. When we got older we started to well "Play doctor" and eventually I fell completely in love with him. We always talked like we where dating but when he was single I would be dating someone and the other way around. Eventually I told him I loved him and wanted to be with him. He told me the same thing but we just couldn't yet because he had a gf. Well after that things started getting awkward I would be crying over him and missing him wanting him, and he started getting creeped out I guess. We haven't seen eachother in about 2 years and I miss his friendship more then anything and I wish I could take everything back.
I have no idea what to write as the question, but, i guess, i can say friends?
-Now i have a friend called Angelina and she was nice the first 30 secs i knew her. im new to this school. i started only 3 weeks ago. i sat with this girl and then she became really mean. her vocabulary is bad, so when i use words such as "unproductive" she says that i read a dictionary, and she told everyone in the class that i read dictionary and now many ppl call me a nerd. now, since i sit with her, i need to get rid of her, or i need to change my place. i cant sit anywhere i like. im stuck here for the rest of the year. what do i do??????Say "Oh I'm sorry, I thought unproductive was quite a simple word to understand. Maybe -you- should read the dictionary."
She doesn't really sound like a friend to me hun, haha. Make sure you stand up for yourself or you'll develop a reputation that you're a pushover. Don't be arrogant but hold your head up high and be confident :)When she's rude to you, defend yourself. You can say something rude to her too or just defend yourself and tell her that you won't be disrespected like that. Also, "unproductive" isn't a big word. Tell her with your education, you'll do well in the real world and she should consider reading the dictionary too. I'm sure you're not pompous, but it doesn't hurt to be "smart".
Also, if you want to meet new people, consider joining clubs and activities around the school. They can be enjoyable and you can find a couple of friends.
try to make new friends or try to impress all classmates by doing something cool or extraordinary that'll prove all of them wrong who think that you are a nerd...
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make new friends....if that's to hard try to last with her if shes really mean then tell her that she is and leave her alone
When sitting with her, keep the bag in between.. Rofl
Tell the teacher! The teacher knows everyone in the class best, and he/she may be able to point you in the right direction for new friends, or ways to unnerd yourself! Don't worry, being a nerd isn't actually bad. They're probably just jealous that you're smarter than them.
If you're a bit passive, you might want to use reverse psychology. Humour her, please her. That is, when Angelina says something like, "You read the dictionary," say, "Yeah, I do actually. That's how ....." and use some big words in there to annoy her. Really, just ignore her. If you're friends with her parents and they're nice people, you could talk to them, but it would have to be quite subtle!
Best of luck!
She doesn't really sound like a friend to me hun, haha. Make sure you stand up for yourself or you'll develop a reputation that you're a pushover. Don't be arrogant but hold your head up high and be confident :)When she's rude to you, defend yourself. You can say something rude to her too or just defend yourself and tell her that you won't be disrespected like that. Also, "unproductive" isn't a big word. Tell her with your education, you'll do well in the real world and she should consider reading the dictionary too. I'm sure you're not pompous, but it doesn't hurt to be "smart".
Also, if you want to meet new people, consider joining clubs and activities around the school. They can be enjoyable and you can find a couple of friends.
try to make new friends or try to impress all classmates by doing something cool or extraordinary that'll prove all of them wrong who think that you are a nerd...
can you answer this??http://in.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind鈥?/a>
make new friends....if that's to hard try to last with her if shes really mean then tell her that she is and leave her alone
When sitting with her, keep the bag in between.. Rofl
Tell the teacher! The teacher knows everyone in the class best, and he/she may be able to point you in the right direction for new friends, or ways to unnerd yourself! Don't worry, being a nerd isn't actually bad. They're probably just jealous that you're smarter than them.
If you're a bit passive, you might want to use reverse psychology. Humour her, please her. That is, when Angelina says something like, "You read the dictionary," say, "Yeah, I do actually. That's how ....." and use some big words in there to annoy her. Really, just ignore her. If you're friends with her parents and they're nice people, you could talk to them, but it would have to be quite subtle!
Best of luck!
Girls are jealous of me and i have no friends because of it. why do girls do this..?
-i know how this sounds, but its true. i have like 2 friends who are girls and the rest are guys who i dont really want to hang out with becuse they can be idiots. it's so fustrating how girls react to me, and i don't know what to do about it.I had a similar problem, I was in a group of girls where they were jealous of me. And no, it's not vain to admit it, it's true. Usually people you hate you for no apparent reason want to be just like you.
Don't give them the satisfaction of letting them know you care. Distance yourself from them, and hang around with your true friends, until things sort themselves out.
Good luck xI know exactly how you feel,
I've got only 2 friends which are girls too.
I have no idea why they do that. try to ignore them.
I dont think they are jealous i just think that they hate the fact that we'r different from them.
But being different(in a good way) is good.it can be realy hard sometimes but you'l see.
it doesnt mean that you wont have friends foreva it just means that you didnt find them yet.
Good luck :)
p.s guys like girls that are different.
Hmm you saying that girls are jelous of you make me feel you could be a bit full of yourself and that could be why girls stay away from you because guys dont really care how stuck up you are.
you know that they're jealous of you. just play up to it, and be the one everyone wants to be! it's not your problem how they feel so just do what you want!
I think that's an excuse. There are plenty of beautiful women that everybody love and are nice too and have many friends. It's not jealousy...but your personality.
well, just be yourself
I cannot emphasise that point any more
DO not change to just to be liked by others. Be who you are
Don't give them the satisfaction of letting them know you care. Distance yourself from them, and hang around with your true friends, until things sort themselves out.
Good luck xI know exactly how you feel,
I've got only 2 friends which are girls too.
I have no idea why they do that. try to ignore them.
I dont think they are jealous i just think that they hate the fact that we'r different from them.
But being different(in a good way) is good.it can be realy hard sometimes but you'l see.
it doesnt mean that you wont have friends foreva it just means that you didnt find them yet.
Good luck :)
p.s guys like girls that are different.
Hmm you saying that girls are jelous of you make me feel you could be a bit full of yourself and that could be why girls stay away from you because guys dont really care how stuck up you are.
you know that they're jealous of you. just play up to it, and be the one everyone wants to be! it's not your problem how they feel so just do what you want!
I think that's an excuse. There are plenty of beautiful women that everybody love and are nice too and have many friends. It's not jealousy...but your personality.
well, just be yourself
I cannot emphasise that point any more
DO not change to just to be liked by others. Be who you are
What's the best advice that you can give that will help others not to make the same mistake?
-Real Answers Only Please! Thank you =))))))))))))Please don't make fake relationship Be real and be as you are....Don't change yourself for anybody and for any kind of work proud to be what you are.This question is too vague...there are a million different answers for a million different questions. You should be more specific, however you can preach to somebody all day long but at the end of the day it is THEIR life and they are gonna do whatever they want to do. And that's even if they realize that your advice is the best. So let them make a mistake...they are human and it's the only way they will learn.
tell them you have been through it and no first hand. say dont make the same mistakes i did! in the end the person will make up there own mind and theres nothing we can o about it. its how we learn i guess! good luck
Tell them of your experience. That is the best example you can give. You know from first hand experience and they can not refute that.
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Learn by my mistakes , but wen it comes to my kids I say do as I say not as I do
tell them you have been through it and no first hand. say dont make the same mistakes i did! in the end the person will make up there own mind and theres nothing we can o about it. its how we learn i guess! good luck
Tell them of your experience. That is the best example you can give. You know from first hand experience and they can not refute that.
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Learn by my mistakes , but wen it comes to my kids I say do as I say not as I do
What happens if your guy best friend kisses you out of nowhere and its your first kiss?
-Now , my guy best friend and I were hanging out . And we were just messing around and joking . We looked at old pictures he held me in his arms and he held my hand or put his arm around me . And he said he was gonna kiss me because he wanted to and because he wanted something back but I didnt believe him . And I got distracted and he did , he kissed me . Then I had something of his . and he said he'd kiss me again and once again I didnt believe him , so he did . And then he kissed me 2 other times because he wanted someting back . Hed say can I have it , I said no , and boom he kissed me ; again . He kissed me 4 times that day , and it was my first kiss. Now we barely talk . What do I do ? Before this all he acted like we were more than friends . So is it ? I don't know what to do & I had feelings for him but like are they there still ? Please help my stupid life's story .He likes u a lot. I have had my guy best friend ask me what I would do if he kissed me. I said I dont want him to do that and it would make things weird. He was like it was awkward when u said u liked me I had a gf well when he asked me that question he had 2 gfs that's y I didnt want to be more then bffs cuz hes a player and there was no physical attraction for me to him. Anyway u should talk to the guy but first figure out how u feel about him cuz u may nit actually like him it might just be that u like the attention listen to your heart but keep your head in mind listen to your heart and mind
And talk to a close girl friend she could be a big help friends r the best advice givers :)What was he looking for in return? If he didn't get whatever it is, then he probs feels like he put himself out there and got rejected. You need to clear some things up with him it seems.
He likes you, is it really that hard to tell???
Just go for it and dont over think everything.
And talk to a close girl friend she could be a big help friends r the best advice givers :)What was he looking for in return? If he didn't get whatever it is, then he probs feels like he put himself out there and got rejected. You need to clear some things up with him it seems.
He likes you, is it really that hard to tell???
Just go for it and dont over think everything.
I dont like her but shes sleeping tonight, in my room too! what do i do?
-Im 15 and A twin. Me and my twin were really close to this girl but me and this girl fell out well i got really cross at her because she said thing like i was a ***** and that i need to think abut what i say. Everyone who knows what she said to me was cross at her too because I'm the type of person who gets along with everyone and ive never really fallen out with anyone in the past. Anyway she is sleeping to night because my twin invited her and my mum was like oh just apologize even though i shouldnt be the one to i did and she ignored me, making me embarrassed and feel like an idiot! So now my mums like well just make friends because i dont want her to feel unwelcome in my house! But i dont want to be friends with her! Not after what she has done and said! Now i feel as though I'm not wanted in my house whilst shes there!Just let everyone know that you live there too and it's not fair for them to do something that would deliberately upset you or put you in an uncomfortable situation, if you really can't stop the sleepover from happening, just sleep in a different room, even if that means the siting room, don't allow people (especially not family) to walk all over you and make you feel like this. Hope this helps x xxignore her <-
Should i do it........ ?
-I hate making plans with people. I feel like whenever I try to make plans my "friends" make excuses. I've been home all summer trying to avoid making plans but now I'm bored lol. I'm usually good by myself but this week it's depressing me. So should I make plans or should I just do my solo thing?for my opinion make plans.. give it a try ... no one wants to be alone always :) ENJOY THE BEST OF SUMMER :DYea, just do it. Think of a thing you'd like to do and call them to join you... think of something they'll like also. Nobody likes to be alone all the way long. But you'll have to insist!
i think you should make plains to hangout with friends .
p,s can you answer my question
i think you should make plains to hangout with friends .
p,s can you answer my question
Is this a true friend?
-If a person waits for you to slip up or make a mistake, is this a true friend? Why would a person simply want to see someone at their worst or screw up, just to have THAT over them and then dump them?No, they don't saond friendly . . .
What's happening?! I can't stop thinking about her?
-Ok I know the title sounds like I'm in love. I'm not. At least I don't think so.
So I met this girl and we agreed on seeing each other again but I wasn't attracted to her. She kept sending me texting messages day after day and I replied politely.
Anyway, the more we went out, (I was going with her and her friends) the more I liked her, but I didn't decide if I was actually in love or not so I kept on "stand-by" or whatever you want to call it.
So one night I was texting a male friend of mine who was with her on some bday party about her and idk how I could do it exactly, but I sent an insult and she took his phone and read it... And she got angry.
We decided to met up and be friends again but when we did she just hurried me up and I went back home mad. It has been a month since that happened and there is no longer contact between us, but I keep thinking about her.
My friends tell me "oh c'mon she's not worth it... she's dumb/a slot/etc" then someone else cames and says me she's beautiful and I lost a great girl and blah blah and it's getting hard for me to understand this...
I mean after 1 month and as nothing serious happened I was excepting I could move on...
What's happening?Maybe you're just feeling guilt about insulting her. But she had no business taking his phone xD. If you really don't like her then it shouldn't be hard to forget her unless she's really ugly and the image of her is scarred in your mind.Lmao But if you really can't forhet her you must really like her, bro!... It seems you are in love.
JK
Maybe you really *did* lose a great girl. You will never know until you try to be friends with her again. The worst thing that could happen is that it won't work out.
your in love with her...
sounds like first love?
you should call her find out if you can fix what was broken in the past
Sounds to me your in love or your feelin guilty about your rudeness
Well it sounds like ur in love but try apoligizing and tell her how u really feel and also just be urself girls hate when boys try to be someone their not
at least you have feelings for her if you are not in love with her
So I met this girl and we agreed on seeing each other again but I wasn't attracted to her. She kept sending me texting messages day after day and I replied politely.
Anyway, the more we went out, (I was going with her and her friends) the more I liked her, but I didn't decide if I was actually in love or not so I kept on "stand-by" or whatever you want to call it.
So one night I was texting a male friend of mine who was with her on some bday party about her and idk how I could do it exactly, but I sent an insult and she took his phone and read it... And she got angry.
We decided to met up and be friends again but when we did she just hurried me up and I went back home mad. It has been a month since that happened and there is no longer contact between us, but I keep thinking about her.
My friends tell me "oh c'mon she's not worth it... she's dumb/a slot/etc" then someone else cames and says me she's beautiful and I lost a great girl and blah blah and it's getting hard for me to understand this...
I mean after 1 month and as nothing serious happened I was excepting I could move on...
What's happening?Maybe you're just feeling guilt about insulting her. But she had no business taking his phone xD. If you really don't like her then it shouldn't be hard to forget her unless she's really ugly and the image of her is scarred in your mind.Lmao But if you really can't forhet her you must really like her, bro!... It seems you are in love.
JK
Maybe you really *did* lose a great girl. You will never know until you try to be friends with her again. The worst thing that could happen is that it won't work out.
your in love with her...
sounds like first love?
you should call her find out if you can fix what was broken in the past
Sounds to me your in love or your feelin guilty about your rudeness
Well it sounds like ur in love but try apoligizing and tell her how u really feel and also just be urself girls hate when boys try to be someone their not
at least you have feelings for her if you are not in love with her
Any girl wants to talk with a 17 y/o?
-Im bored and I just want to meet someone new.Im good looking and a nice dude.Heres my personal email.
illbxboii@aol.com
Email me your number if you want to textu r a pedo
if u want to meet some new, true fds, go out and mix around.
illbxboii@aol.com
Email me your number if you want to textu r a pedo
if u want to meet some new, true fds, go out and mix around.
I need friend help :(?
-There are two groups of kids at my school. The drugged/alcoholic/crazy/partying/popular group, and the nerdy/weird kids. I don't fit in either of these groups, but because high school pretty makes you choose one, I chose the nerdy/weird kids. (I'm not exactly interested in having sex and partying every weekend.) All of my friends recently have become so depressed, lazy, and dull. We never hang out, we never go anywhere, and we really never talk. I always invite my friends to come over, or to concerts, the mall, the pool, etc. No matter if we are seeing their favorite band or anything really, they are still so sad, and almost acting as though they are on drugs (even though they are not). If you don't understand what I am describing, they act absent minded, don't talk, don't smile, and are kind of concentrating on staring off into the distance at the oh so interesting bird in the sky or something. I don't even want to hang out with my so called "friends" anymore. I did have a group of friends at the start of the year, but they all became so competitive, always made fun of me, and tried to make my life miserable... So now I only have some friends from middle school, and a few from my high school left; and they're the dull, uninteresting kids! The problem though, is that I go to a preppy high school, so everyone is kind of mean; and the kids who aren't mean, are dull! I know that it is not just me, because they are like this with everyone. I don't know what to do anymore. My parents are sick of taking me places (which I totally get), and I cannot drive yet. I am bored. I want to make new friends. Although, I do not have very many options. I hope this made some sense. Any ideas? :/wow, maybe your friends are zombies? but if you really want to make new friends and dont have many choices, make your own unique group!!! maybe some people would join and become your friends. be your self and be unique. thats when people start to notice you. :) hope this helps.Do you think you could go to a different school? Im sure there has to be some normal non nerdy not mean kids in your school. Try to talk to people that you've never talked to before and maybe you will realize they aren't so bad. Good luck!:)
How about joining clubs at school that interest you? Or even find some kind of after school community thing you can do. Like volunteering somewhere.
Ok you made a good choice picking the geeks. Get those dull geeks and turn them into something else! If they don't wanna hang out then try to reel them in. If they are complete losers then start small and change them. Screw the party people. They are ruining themselves. If everyone is mean to u get help. U may look like a stuck up ***** telling on everybody but remember that u aren't. If your old friends are dull make them get off the couch and drag them someplace! As for your parents, they should be tired of taking u places but they shouldnt admit it! If your parents refuse to take u someplace then sit down and talk to them. Tell them that your life and friends are so hard and your trying to be a good friend but your parents are holing u back. They might understand if they are good parents. But remember to loosen up sometimes too! Go party once in a while! It's ok! Make a group of your own! Get some party people and the coolest geeks and there u go! A perfect group! I'm confusing but I hope I helped!
How about joining clubs at school that interest you? Or even find some kind of after school community thing you can do. Like volunteering somewhere.
Ok you made a good choice picking the geeks. Get those dull geeks and turn them into something else! If they don't wanna hang out then try to reel them in. If they are complete losers then start small and change them. Screw the party people. They are ruining themselves. If everyone is mean to u get help. U may look like a stuck up ***** telling on everybody but remember that u aren't. If your old friends are dull make them get off the couch and drag them someplace! As for your parents, they should be tired of taking u places but they shouldnt admit it! If your parents refuse to take u someplace then sit down and talk to them. Tell them that your life and friends are so hard and your trying to be a good friend but your parents are holing u back. They might understand if they are good parents. But remember to loosen up sometimes too! Go party once in a while! It's ok! Make a group of your own! Get some party people and the coolest geeks and there u go! A perfect group! I'm confusing but I hope I helped!
My friend trying to steal my girlfriend?
-Basically for the last week me and my girlfriend have had a really bad argument
Ever since we started arguing it seems that my "BEST FRIEND"
has disowned me and hates me now and slags me of really badly etc removed me from EVERYTHING
i found out a couple of days ago that my girlfriend went round his house to watch a movie with him
just a few things
is it NORMAL to be really mad/upset to the point of wanting to seriously break up with her after many years because instead of trying to solve our issues she spends time with him.
What should i do?definitely have a talk with her and whatever you do, apologize. even if she was the one wrong. girls love that. and tell your friend to kiss yo a** because friends dont do that to eachother unless he is really helping with the relationship, like hes telling her what to do since hes ur best friend. but to be honest i doubt that. if your girlfriend keeps doing that, then maybe you should consider who she really is and think about whats really going on in the relationship cz this isnt a problem that will just go away, it will always be thereTalk to her. Also, try working things out with your best friend. If he leaves you for a girl, he's a ******** and never was your friend.
I can understand why your mad at her but if you really love her then you will find a way to resolve this.
Brah , lick yo friends *** cuz.
Talk to her!
Talk to her and not us.
Ever since we started arguing it seems that my "BEST FRIEND"
has disowned me and hates me now and slags me of really badly etc removed me from EVERYTHING
i found out a couple of days ago that my girlfriend went round his house to watch a movie with him
just a few things
is it NORMAL to be really mad/upset to the point of wanting to seriously break up with her after many years because instead of trying to solve our issues she spends time with him.
What should i do?definitely have a talk with her and whatever you do, apologize. even if she was the one wrong. girls love that. and tell your friend to kiss yo a** because friends dont do that to eachother unless he is really helping with the relationship, like hes telling her what to do since hes ur best friend. but to be honest i doubt that. if your girlfriend keeps doing that, then maybe you should consider who she really is and think about whats really going on in the relationship cz this isnt a problem that will just go away, it will always be thereTalk to her. Also, try working things out with your best friend. If he leaves you for a girl, he's a ******** and never was your friend.
I can understand why your mad at her but if you really love her then you will find a way to resolve this.
Brah , lick yo friends *** cuz.
Talk to her!
Talk to her and not us.
I have no idea what to write as the question, but, i guess, i can say friends?
-Now i have a friend called Angelina and she was nice the first 30 secs i knew her. im new to this school. i started only 3 weeks ago. i sat with this girl and then she became really mean. her vocabulary is bad, so when i use words such as "unproductive" she says that i read a dictionary, and she told everyone in the class that i read dictionary and now many ppl call me a nerd. now, since i sit with her, i need to get rid of her, or i need to change my place. i cant sit anywhere i like. im stuck here for the rest of the year. what do i do??????Say "Oh I'm sorry, I thought unproductive was quite a simple word to understand. Maybe -you- should read the dictionary."
She doesn't really sound like a friend to me hun, haha. Make sure you stand up for yourself or you'll develop a reputation that you're a pushover. Don't be arrogant but hold your head up high and be confident :)When she's rude to you, defend yourself. You can say something rude to her too or just defend yourself and tell her that you won't be disrespected like that. Also, "unproductive" isn't a big word. Tell her with your education, you'll do well in the real world and she should consider reading the dictionary too. I'm sure you're not pompous, but it doesn't hurt to be "smart".
Also, if you want to meet new people, consider joining clubs and activities around the school. They can be enjoyable and you can find a couple of friends.
try to make new friends or try to impress all classmates by doing something cool or extraordinary that'll prove all of them wrong who think that you are a nerd...
can you answer this??http://in.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind鈥?/a>
make new friends....if that's to hard try to last with her if shes really mean then tell her that she is and leave her alone
When sitting with her, keep the bag in between.. Rofl
Tell the teacher! The teacher knows everyone in the class best, and he/she may be able to point you in the right direction for new friends, or ways to unnerd yourself! Don't worry, being a nerd isn't actually bad. They're probably just jealous that you're smarter than them.
If you're a bit passive, you might want to use reverse psychology. Humour her, please her. That is, when Angelina says something like, "You read the dictionary," say, "Yeah, I do actually. That's how ....." and use some big words in there to annoy her. Really, just ignore her. If you're friends with her parents and they're nice people, you could talk to them, but it would have to be quite subtle!
Best of luck!
She doesn't really sound like a friend to me hun, haha. Make sure you stand up for yourself or you'll develop a reputation that you're a pushover. Don't be arrogant but hold your head up high and be confident :)When she's rude to you, defend yourself. You can say something rude to her too or just defend yourself and tell her that you won't be disrespected like that. Also, "unproductive" isn't a big word. Tell her with your education, you'll do well in the real world and she should consider reading the dictionary too. I'm sure you're not pompous, but it doesn't hurt to be "smart".
Also, if you want to meet new people, consider joining clubs and activities around the school. They can be enjoyable and you can find a couple of friends.
try to make new friends or try to impress all classmates by doing something cool or extraordinary that'll prove all of them wrong who think that you are a nerd...
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make new friends....if that's to hard try to last with her if shes really mean then tell her that she is and leave her alone
When sitting with her, keep the bag in between.. Rofl
Tell the teacher! The teacher knows everyone in the class best, and he/she may be able to point you in the right direction for new friends, or ways to unnerd yourself! Don't worry, being a nerd isn't actually bad. They're probably just jealous that you're smarter than them.
If you're a bit passive, you might want to use reverse psychology. Humour her, please her. That is, when Angelina says something like, "You read the dictionary," say, "Yeah, I do actually. That's how ....." and use some big words in there to annoy her. Really, just ignore her. If you're friends with her parents and they're nice people, you could talk to them, but it would have to be quite subtle!
Best of luck!
I'm I getting ignored or?
-Is she not checking her emails?...I met a nice girl and we are emailing each other she seems pretty cool I'd like to get to know her better we both got alot incommon anyways she's making a Facebook so we can talk easier but in the middle of are conversation I had to leave I sent her an email q couple days ago and no response maybe she's not checking her email or she's ignoring me?....and if you read this question (I say you because you never told me your name) I hope I dont seem.....creepy I just want to talk to you more you seem cool :)Haha. I'm sorta stalking you on Yahoo!Answers now... You just seem really sad, so I checked your page out...
Calm down. (Some more.) She has a life outside her Facebook, too, you know. She could be busy, and she's not just checking her e-mail. Wait for a reply. Make some other online friends so that you'll always have some one to chat with online.Give it some time. She's new to facebook so she probably doesn't even know you messaged her. If she is ignoring you you'll only make it worse by messaging her repeatedly so drop it, communicate by other means if you have that option and see whats up.
It's been only a few days. I'd suggest that you give her more time. Maybe she got really busy with issues at work or home. You could wait for a week more and then mail her again or she may assume you've a forceful personality :)
Keep responding to her and when she finally starts talking to you again, ask her her name and really seem interested in her beyond just friendly chit-chat. Maybe she got busy. Good luck.
Yup.
she's not checking her emails. Why would she be ignoring you if you email each other so much?
yes
Calm down. (Some more.) She has a life outside her Facebook, too, you know. She could be busy, and she's not just checking her e-mail. Wait for a reply. Make some other online friends so that you'll always have some one to chat with online.Give it some time. She's new to facebook so she probably doesn't even know you messaged her. If she is ignoring you you'll only make it worse by messaging her repeatedly so drop it, communicate by other means if you have that option and see whats up.
It's been only a few days. I'd suggest that you give her more time. Maybe she got really busy with issues at work or home. You could wait for a week more and then mail her again or she may assume you've a forceful personality :)
Keep responding to her and when she finally starts talking to you again, ask her her name and really seem interested in her beyond just friendly chit-chat. Maybe she got busy. Good luck.
Yup.
she's not checking her emails. Why would she be ignoring you if you email each other so much?
yes
How can I comfort my friend ? ?
-My friend had a bad day yesterday. Her boyfriend was being mean to her and she said she was crying when they had sex and he didn't comfort her and she said it really hurt. How can I comfort her ?Tell her you're there for her and her boyfriend is a jerk.
Hug her and calm her down. Show her that you are actually really there for her, no matter what. Take her out to the movies or something. Do something that you know she will like.
Also, in my opinion, advise her to talk to her boyfriend and sort things out. If they can't sort it, tell her to break up with him.
Just my opinion. :)buy her a MASSIVE tub of ben and jerry's ......also find out and then post all of her boy friends secrets on Facebook ( actually that is probably not the best idea maybe wait till they've broken up to do the last bit )
seriously though junk food and a good friend to talk to never hurts =)
Hug her and calm her down. Show her that you are actually really there for her, no matter what. Take her out to the movies or something. Do something that you know she will like.
Also, in my opinion, advise her to talk to her boyfriend and sort things out. If they can't sort it, tell her to break up with him.
Just my opinion. :)buy her a MASSIVE tub of ben and jerry's ......also find out and then post all of her boy friends secrets on Facebook ( actually that is probably not the best idea maybe wait till they've broken up to do the last bit )
seriously though junk food and a good friend to talk to never hurts =)
How do I not be shy around a guy?
-There is this guy I like and I think he may like me back because last year I was in a class room waiting for class to start and one of my friends Dan called my name. I turned around and Scott (the guy I like) and Dan were talking. Dan than said that Scott had something to tell me Scott started to blush and smile he never told me. After that I thought about and thought maybe Scott likes me so I started to really notice Scott and I liked him.
Scott and I rarely talk because I'm so shy and he's shy to me to. I really want to get to know him as a friend and see where we stand problem is like I said before I'm SUPER shy. So if anybody has any tips please answer and tell me. Thanks :)I completely get you ... I can be just as shy... and awkward around a dude. I usually just try to make jokes and talk about things we both like. Don't think about it too much or you will stress and it WILL get awkward i promise. Just be real. It helps if you just practice kind of with a guy friend... remembering topics that went well and stuff... Just keep it real and don't hold back (seriously one of my conversations with a guy i liked was about driving in a parkway and parking in a driveway. SUPER cheesy but it worked!)You said you were friends with that Dan person right?
and at looks to me like Scott and Dan are fairly good friends,
so why don't you hang out with Dan more?
So you can start out by getting to know Scott with Dan around to lighten things up for you guys?
I'm the same way around guys I like lol
You should try with just saying Hi than graudally move up to the conversation.
girl just have confidence and be urself around him.. thats wat guys wat u to do.. even if he's shy u can get him out his shell.
Scott and I rarely talk because I'm so shy and he's shy to me to. I really want to get to know him as a friend and see where we stand problem is like I said before I'm SUPER shy. So if anybody has any tips please answer and tell me. Thanks :)I completely get you ... I can be just as shy... and awkward around a dude. I usually just try to make jokes and talk about things we both like. Don't think about it too much or you will stress and it WILL get awkward i promise. Just be real. It helps if you just practice kind of with a guy friend... remembering topics that went well and stuff... Just keep it real and don't hold back (seriously one of my conversations with a guy i liked was about driving in a parkway and parking in a driveway. SUPER cheesy but it worked!)You said you were friends with that Dan person right?
and at looks to me like Scott and Dan are fairly good friends,
so why don't you hang out with Dan more?
So you can start out by getting to know Scott with Dan around to lighten things up for you guys?
I'm the same way around guys I like lol
You should try with just saying Hi than graudally move up to the conversation.
girl just have confidence and be urself around him.. thats wat guys wat u to do.. even if he's shy u can get him out his shell.
What is a good look to go out to a nightclub with friends from work?
-I need to buy some new clothes for this because we are on the guest list. So what is a good look. I live in the uk so tell me what to get and what shops to go to. ThanksJust go as you and be true to who you are. I dont think from the brief description we can tell you exactly what to wear however if they are from work then maybe just a shirt and jeans thats quite simple but easily accessible and then you can see what everyone is wearing and look at that for next time
Hope this helps
Hope this helps
How can I start talking to people this year?
-I'm going back to university at the end of September for my second year, and I need tips to help me start talking to people. I spent my first year being incredibly lonely, because I was so shy, and found it impossible to talk to anyone, and no one talked to me. This year I don't want that to happen again, because I was quite depressed, so I want to try really hard to push past my shy nature and talk to people.
The thing is, what do I talk to people about? I'll be going back to be in classes with the people who spent all of last year not speaking to me. Any ideas on what conversation topics I could begin with? I'll take anything, I just need something to help me get started.confidence is the key then everything goes naturally
first talk to your classmates about some studying materials or anything common between you and them
you can work in groups with them when possible and show them you care about making friends with them and you should know that people are so much accepting than you imagine . if you said sth stupid or made sth weird they'll not reject you as you think . Get to know people and speak like what you want to speak i bet they'll love you . Good luck
i can help you if u want my mail is takebreath65@yahoo.comSAy hello and how are you today. Compliment them on their outfits. If you see a book that they have, ask them a question about that class or subject, anything to get the ball rolling. As you ask small questions, they will reveal more to you and you can ask follow up questions about their answers and responses. AS you get to know more about them, talk to them about the things they like and themselves. ths will get the conversations going and you will get better with practice.
Im a 16 yr male who happens to be very outgoing. I make friends easily and am typically well liked. My sugguestion would be just act casual and introduce yourself. if you say something like "what a great game" or "i hate this class" or just comment people will get the impression your approachable and may respond. Ill often say something like "ohh nice shoes" or something and if they respond introduce myself from there and see where it goes. Being presentable and open is the way to go.
ask them for help with your classes or what they are doing? let them know you were shy and would love to get to know people more. get a book about dating. it help me.
say a negative thing and make fun of the teacher it gets everyone going and start talking about how cute their clothes are
Be yourself it will come natural.
The thing is, what do I talk to people about? I'll be going back to be in classes with the people who spent all of last year not speaking to me. Any ideas on what conversation topics I could begin with? I'll take anything, I just need something to help me get started.confidence is the key then everything goes naturally
first talk to your classmates about some studying materials or anything common between you and them
you can work in groups with them when possible and show them you care about making friends with them and you should know that people are so much accepting than you imagine . if you said sth stupid or made sth weird they'll not reject you as you think . Get to know people and speak like what you want to speak i bet they'll love you . Good luck
i can help you if u want my mail is takebreath65@yahoo.comSAy hello and how are you today. Compliment them on their outfits. If you see a book that they have, ask them a question about that class or subject, anything to get the ball rolling. As you ask small questions, they will reveal more to you and you can ask follow up questions about their answers and responses. AS you get to know more about them, talk to them about the things they like and themselves. ths will get the conversations going and you will get better with practice.
Im a 16 yr male who happens to be very outgoing. I make friends easily and am typically well liked. My sugguestion would be just act casual and introduce yourself. if you say something like "what a great game" or "i hate this class" or just comment people will get the impression your approachable and may respond. Ill often say something like "ohh nice shoes" or something and if they respond introduce myself from there and see where it goes. Being presentable and open is the way to go.
ask them for help with your classes or what they are doing? let them know you were shy and would love to get to know people more. get a book about dating. it help me.
say a negative thing and make fun of the teacher it gets everyone going and start talking about how cute their clothes are
Be yourself it will come natural.
:( should I or should I not?
-Okay I'll try to keep it short. Im at a loss; idk what should I do. Anyway I'm 15.
So there's this guy whom I almost got together with, but anyway didnt because he asked me to be his girl just to attempt sex with me. We're both from the same school. Also there's this annual school science fair coming up. Last year I helped out as an usher. And he was one of the helpers too.
At that time, our relationship was just good friends that would text each other like every minute, and we would tell each other almost everything. It was not as awkward as it is now.
However, he asked me for 'it'. I hesitated but eventually rejected him. We didn't talk for like 6 months.
We often bumped into each other in school. He was like everywhere. There was once our eyes met accidentally, he was smiling, and I became so nervous. It was soooo awkward. But around 1 or 2 weeks ago, he suddenly texted me saying that he was responsible for whatever happened between us, and he wanted me to get all those things out of my head.
This year, the teacher in charge of the science fair hopes the helpers last year to help again. And he is going to help. I think he doesn't know that I'm helping too. FYI I signed up before him. I didn't know he was going to help.
So, my question is, should I withdraw from being a helper? If I withdraw I still have to go the fair, but as a bio student. Or should
I continue to help? I don't know omg. FYI again, the station we are going to help at is really small. And, I feel like making up with him. He's wondeful to be a girl's guy best friend. Y'know what I mean.
Anyway, thanks in advance(:stay true to yourself if this guy wants sex and your not willing to give ti to him then stay away from him we often want to be delivered from temptation but would like it to keep in touch think? you may want him as a friend but does he really want that from you, BTW yes i think you should go to the fair and help out don't let him dictate your behavior alto you'll be seeing him try to act normal if he says hello say hello if he wants a convo let him have it but don't let things get out of hand take stock of your life and live stay true to yourself like i said and all would work out well:)If you truly have or still have feelings for him, then you should make up. You'll never know how me feels until you ask him. You might feel nervous or scared, but it will all work out in the end. (:
Foremost, make it clear to him that YOU ARE NOT GOING TO SPREAD UR LEGS FOR HIS 1inch dik. But if he persists, stay clear away from him and best record several times and tell ur teacher and report him for sexual harassment. Also girl, ur befuddled by his looks and his fake personality. If he's that guy who asks for sex at 15, he's not reliable. Is he going to account for his sexual advances and actions towards u. What if he impregnate u, what is he going to do about it( it's a rhetorical q), he's going to dump for FOR ANOTHER GIRL. Young boys at his age are retards w/o any brains(esp him). Don't be distracted by his looks etc, look past those. He actually asked for sex from u, what are the chances that he also asked for sex for OTHER GIRLS in ur school, outside? Porn prolly corrupted his mindset. He DOES NOT SEE U AS A GIRL. He sees u as a SEX TOOL to satisfy his sexual urges. Also 15 is at the middle of puberty where males experience a lot of changes etc, wet dreams blah blah blah. He's brain is screwed up, for all u know, all the time he's talking to u he's fantasizing having sex with u.
I can just imagine how difficult it must be for a pretty girl to fend off the advances of interested boys . This is something every girl must face going though life and good for you that you have already made it to 15 . Some girls depending on the country or environment they live in are having babies at 11. Well, you probably have heard this before a hundred times but NO means NO and if this guy really cares for you and understands the LAW he should accept your wishes .Does he know he could end up in JAIL ?
Do you know you will end up with a unwanted REPUTATION should you give in ? The fact that all of this makes you uncomfortable means you are a GOOD girl and want to remain just that . Withdraw from the science fair project . Do whats good for you !
I think you should go to the science fair, try to be good friends with him again but if he does ask you to do it again then you should say no, and just try to stay out of the way. If you make friends with him, try to make it clear to him that you are JUST friends and you wont do it with him.
So there's this guy whom I almost got together with, but anyway didnt because he asked me to be his girl just to attempt sex with me. We're both from the same school. Also there's this annual school science fair coming up. Last year I helped out as an usher. And he was one of the helpers too.
At that time, our relationship was just good friends that would text each other like every minute, and we would tell each other almost everything. It was not as awkward as it is now.
However, he asked me for 'it'. I hesitated but eventually rejected him. We didn't talk for like 6 months.
We often bumped into each other in school. He was like everywhere. There was once our eyes met accidentally, he was smiling, and I became so nervous. It was soooo awkward. But around 1 or 2 weeks ago, he suddenly texted me saying that he was responsible for whatever happened between us, and he wanted me to get all those things out of my head.
This year, the teacher in charge of the science fair hopes the helpers last year to help again. And he is going to help. I think he doesn't know that I'm helping too. FYI I signed up before him. I didn't know he was going to help.
So, my question is, should I withdraw from being a helper? If I withdraw I still have to go the fair, but as a bio student. Or should
I continue to help? I don't know omg. FYI again, the station we are going to help at is really small. And, I feel like making up with him. He's wondeful to be a girl's guy best friend. Y'know what I mean.
Anyway, thanks in advance(:stay true to yourself if this guy wants sex and your not willing to give ti to him then stay away from him we often want to be delivered from temptation but would like it to keep in touch think? you may want him as a friend but does he really want that from you, BTW yes i think you should go to the fair and help out don't let him dictate your behavior alto you'll be seeing him try to act normal if he says hello say hello if he wants a convo let him have it but don't let things get out of hand take stock of your life and live stay true to yourself like i said and all would work out well:)If you truly have or still have feelings for him, then you should make up. You'll never know how me feels until you ask him. You might feel nervous or scared, but it will all work out in the end. (:
Foremost, make it clear to him that YOU ARE NOT GOING TO SPREAD UR LEGS FOR HIS 1inch dik. But if he persists, stay clear away from him and best record several times and tell ur teacher and report him for sexual harassment. Also girl, ur befuddled by his looks and his fake personality. If he's that guy who asks for sex at 15, he's not reliable. Is he going to account for his sexual advances and actions towards u. What if he impregnate u, what is he going to do about it( it's a rhetorical q), he's going to dump for FOR ANOTHER GIRL. Young boys at his age are retards w/o any brains(esp him). Don't be distracted by his looks etc, look past those. He actually asked for sex from u, what are the chances that he also asked for sex for OTHER GIRLS in ur school, outside? Porn prolly corrupted his mindset. He DOES NOT SEE U AS A GIRL. He sees u as a SEX TOOL to satisfy his sexual urges. Also 15 is at the middle of puberty where males experience a lot of changes etc, wet dreams blah blah blah. He's brain is screwed up, for all u know, all the time he's talking to u he's fantasizing having sex with u.
I can just imagine how difficult it must be for a pretty girl to fend off the advances of interested boys . This is something every girl must face going though life and good for you that you have already made it to 15 . Some girls depending on the country or environment they live in are having babies at 11. Well, you probably have heard this before a hundred times but NO means NO and if this guy really cares for you and understands the LAW he should accept your wishes .Does he know he could end up in JAIL ?
Do you know you will end up with a unwanted REPUTATION should you give in ? The fact that all of this makes you uncomfortable means you are a GOOD girl and want to remain just that . Withdraw from the science fair project . Do whats good for you !
I think you should go to the science fair, try to be good friends with him again but if he does ask you to do it again then you should say no, and just try to stay out of the way. If you make friends with him, try to make it clear to him that you are JUST friends and you wont do it with him.
My mum say's I can't be friends with my best friend?
-I mean what the heck?! She can't tell who not to be and who to be friends with, and i been friends with my friend for like almost my whole life, she's sweet funny and all a good friend is but she had issues with her parents and she didn't want to go home. Then her mum phoned and asked to speak to my mum and when they spoke, her mum was on about ho bad my friend has been and all that.
Now my mum says i cant be friends with her caus she's bad and all that but that's not true in anyway. This just makes me hate my mum, she is mean about all my friends and I can't stand it. Im gonna end up not being allowed to be friends with anyone if she continues like this.well if your anything like me do it behind her back but you might wanna tell her "i'm old enough to make those kind of decisions for myself" shes just trying to protect you and she may have a reason but no matter what you 2 should stay friends if you wanna go out with her then just tell your mom your going to a different friend's house but really go out with your best friend and if your mom catches you the worst she can do is ground you and im pretty sure it's stupid to ground you for that if You love her (like a friend) she can't stop you
GOOD LUCKand you did not think it might be a good idea to say how old you are ?
maybe your mum has good reason to not want you with this girl
Now my mum says i cant be friends with her caus she's bad and all that but that's not true in anyway. This just makes me hate my mum, she is mean about all my friends and I can't stand it. Im gonna end up not being allowed to be friends with anyone if she continues like this.well if your anything like me do it behind her back but you might wanna tell her "i'm old enough to make those kind of decisions for myself" shes just trying to protect you and she may have a reason but no matter what you 2 should stay friends if you wanna go out with her then just tell your mom your going to a different friend's house but really go out with your best friend and if your mom catches you the worst she can do is ground you and im pretty sure it's stupid to ground you for that if You love her (like a friend) she can't stop you
GOOD LUCKand you did not think it might be a good idea to say how old you are ?
maybe your mum has good reason to not want you with this girl
Why do I feel selfish when I try to talk about my problems?
-When I talk about my family problems or just self issues I have with myself that cause harm to me to my family friends and boyfriend I ALWAYS feel selfish like I do not matter enough to even be talking about anything that goes on with me because I know there are people with worse problems than mine. Like even now asking over the internet I feel horrible and selfish even asking this. I do not understand is there something wrong with feeling this way or is it something everyone goes though help cause I really do hate holding stuff inside to build up.It is really UNselfish to even ask this question. It is very good that you feel like it. I mean the fact that you know others have worse problems. However, if you yourself have not experienced those problems, you can't understand them. That's normal, I think. Everyone has problems and it's very prudent to talk about them 'cuz if you keep them in your mind, you'll end up crazy!
Sometimes, you might be the one with the worse problem and it's good for others to hear it so that they can judge their own problems as well.
All in all, what I want to say is that it is the best for everyone to talk about their problems. That's why we have friends. So that they can stand up to us.I swear I'm just like you. I feel the same way with telling people my problems because I don't think that it's even worth asking. I'm normally the listener when it comes to problems and I don't want to impose on anyone. But what you have to know is that we are all people, we have problems and we all need someone to listen to us and help us with our problems, So it's ok to talk about it because bottling it up inside just makes it worse. Hope this helped. :)
You are clearly a selfless person! You don't want other people worrying about you :)
Sometimes, you might be the one with the worse problem and it's good for others to hear it so that they can judge their own problems as well.
All in all, what I want to say is that it is the best for everyone to talk about their problems. That's why we have friends. So that they can stand up to us.I swear I'm just like you. I feel the same way with telling people my problems because I don't think that it's even worth asking. I'm normally the listener when it comes to problems and I don't want to impose on anyone. But what you have to know is that we are all people, we have problems and we all need someone to listen to us and help us with our problems, So it's ok to talk about it because bottling it up inside just makes it worse. Hope this helped. :)
You are clearly a selfless person! You don't want other people worrying about you :)
Omg i'm 14 and pregnant by my ex. HOW DO I TELL MY BOYFRIEND(16)?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!!…?
-'m so scared right now. I'm not a slut. My ex slipped me ecstacy at a party a few months ago by him and no i didn't press charges because i wasn't supposed to be there anyways and ii lied to my mom and said a friend gave it to me and i took it by choice. That was my first and LAST time. I'm pretty much traumatized anyways. The point is that i'm with another guy that i really like and he's a virgin and i told him that i'm a virgin before i found out about the pregnancy. How can i explain to him that i lied about being a virgin and now i'm pregnant by my ex? This SUCKS! I don't know what to do. My bff is the only one that knows. I considered myself a virgin after that night since it wasn't my decision to have sex. I've pretty much been a liar since that night. I lied to my mom and my boyfriend and now i'm pregnant and everythings falling apart. Don't say i'm too young to be involved in this but it's too late and i am. My mom knows I date and lets me so it's not your decision to tell me what to do. I just need to know how do I tell my mom and boyfriend? Please don't tell me to break up with my bf because that's not going to happen. When I was with my ex i was hanging with the wrong crowd and doing a bunch of stuff i shouldn't have. When we broke up and I got with Dion he's been helping me get it together and i've liked him since fifth grade and at this point i think i may love him. Don't start with me about being too young to love because i happen to know that's impossible. My parents were neighbors when they were in kindergarten through highschool and they've loved each other since the day my mom moved in. Anyways... PLEASE HELP!!If thats all true god bless you. i think you were very strong in wanting to forget about the past and move on from it. your pregnant now and your going to have to mature and grow up and make decisions you would have never thought you would have to be making at this age..but your going to have to stay strong and stick through it all. The right thing to do and what you really should do is just come out with the truth. you can not hide something like that. tell your parents and your boyfriend what happend. it wasnt your choice for that to happen but it was your choice to go to that place weth your ex . you have to step up to the plate and tell the truth. trust me, that is the best thing you can do. hope everything turns out okay!!Then have a abortion, you're too young to have a kid, only other way is to tell the truth.
Just tell your parents first, your boyfriend might leave you though. Please don't terminate the pregnancy if you don't need to.
I'm not going to read all that.
All I am going to say is that you need to get your life back on track..
TELL THEM THE TRUTH!!!
OMG LIEK NO WAI GIRLFRIEND
How to tell your mother and boyfriend is not your biggest problem, here. Choose what you may, but at least make an informed choice. It is extremely rare that a modern day abortion could cause enough irreversible scar tissue to prevent a future pregnancy. As to emotional trauma, it depends on the person and the circumstances. Approximately 15,000 abortions are performed every day. Just because you know one person who reacted a certain way, doesn't mean that's everyone's experience.
P.S. The last time I checked, ecstasy does not make people black out or do things they don't want to do.
Oh my... You better be trolling.
If not, I highly suggest you tell you mom and dad first, before you tell your boyfriend, as they will probably have the best advice and help for you. Tell them you have something important to tell them, sit them down in a private area, and tell them exactly what happened. Tell them you need help. You should also tell your boyfriend, but there's a possibility he will leave you, just a heads up.
See a doctor, take care of that baby, and then put him/her up for adoption, since your too young to raise a baby. You may also want to press charges on your ex, as it may count as rape.
For the love if humanity, don't kill your child!
first of all pregnancy tests could easily be wrong...so see a doctor...then tell the truth to ur mom first...tell her what relle happened that night and how it wasnt ur choice to have sex...its not your fault your pregnantt...but first u need to explain to ur mom...then explain to ur boyfriend...im 14 and i WOULDNT GET AN ABORTION..thats not even an option...u could go through with having the baby and either keep it or put it up for adoption..i would talk to ur mom be4 u talk to ur boy friend
she is your mother! she will understand you and your bf will too understand cuz he loves you only you right?? just be sure dont lie anymore,shut you lies and face the truth cuz u know its too late and before anything happens talk to your mum first then your bf.
TELL THE TRUTH! Seriously i know its hard but the best thing right now is to be completely open and honest about everything that's happened, with your mom and your boyfriend and whoever else who may be involved. Ya it's really difficult but u will be forgiven; right now you need help and the best place to get that help is from the people u care about most.
Well you should tell your boyfriend when you hang out once... And it's his decision if he wants to leave you or not. You're only 14 anyway, and if he does leave you, you have your whole life ahead of you to find someone else that will accept your baby. Everything you do has consequences, and this is one of it. And it's best to tell your mom soon. You will probably get a bunch of crap for it from your parents, but that's the right thing to do because they are the only one's who could help you. And what ever you do, don't get abortion! Have you watched 16 and pregnant? Those girls always have a hard time before they get their baby, and after too. But everything will be fine in the future. :) So just be truthful from now on, and everything will fall into its place. :) Good luck!
1. shouldn't lie, it makes things like this go a whole lot easier, remember this if there's a next time
2. obviously you tell him, the sooner you do it the easier, just make sure you tell him the whole truth
3. you still are too young, can't be too late for age to matter,
4. you don't have to break up with him...especially (sorry...has to be said) if he breaks up with you...and if that happens, there goes the whole love theory
anyways....there you go
calm down! im yonger then u cuz im 11 (almost 12 will b on 8/17) anyway culm down if u dont w to harm the baby tell ur grand parent on just ell ur mom that u NEED to tallk asap cuzz it has to do with growing up and tell her then for ur boy friend just call him meet a his house pick him up and go some were privet and say somthen like hay um i need to talk and tell u somthen i lied to u about and if hes under standing he might even wt to b the babys daddy and just tell him telling the truth works i no from experence...but if u got a dad around...i...wount tell him ust a worning
wow, that really sucks. Honestly, if you keep hiding all this, it just seems like its going to get worse. And there's going to be a point where youre big, and everyones going to know somethings up. It's only a matter of time before you actually h a v e to tell (unless, you terminate the pergnancy). Just sit them down i would do it separate and tell your bf the news. If he really cares about you the way your portait it, then he'll be understanding and help you through this. Its never good to lie to your mother, then again, things happen. Just tell her that you made a mistake that you learned from and im sure she'll come around. She's your mother, and youre her child, nothing can break a bond like that. Just own up to what you've done and gain their trust back. Its a lot to do, but it has to be done, good luck to you.
Just tell your parents first, your boyfriend might leave you though. Please don't terminate the pregnancy if you don't need to.
I'm not going to read all that.
All I am going to say is that you need to get your life back on track..
TELL THEM THE TRUTH!!!
OMG LIEK NO WAI GIRLFRIEND
How to tell your mother and boyfriend is not your biggest problem, here. Choose what you may, but at least make an informed choice. It is extremely rare that a modern day abortion could cause enough irreversible scar tissue to prevent a future pregnancy. As to emotional trauma, it depends on the person and the circumstances. Approximately 15,000 abortions are performed every day. Just because you know one person who reacted a certain way, doesn't mean that's everyone's experience.
P.S. The last time I checked, ecstasy does not make people black out or do things they don't want to do.
Oh my... You better be trolling.
If not, I highly suggest you tell you mom and dad first, before you tell your boyfriend, as they will probably have the best advice and help for you. Tell them you have something important to tell them, sit them down in a private area, and tell them exactly what happened. Tell them you need help. You should also tell your boyfriend, but there's a possibility he will leave you, just a heads up.
See a doctor, take care of that baby, and then put him/her up for adoption, since your too young to raise a baby. You may also want to press charges on your ex, as it may count as rape.
For the love if humanity, don't kill your child!
first of all pregnancy tests could easily be wrong...so see a doctor...then tell the truth to ur mom first...tell her what relle happened that night and how it wasnt ur choice to have sex...its not your fault your pregnantt...but first u need to explain to ur mom...then explain to ur boyfriend...im 14 and i WOULDNT GET AN ABORTION..thats not even an option...u could go through with having the baby and either keep it or put it up for adoption..i would talk to ur mom be4 u talk to ur boy friend
she is your mother! she will understand you and your bf will too understand cuz he loves you only you right?? just be sure dont lie anymore,shut you lies and face the truth cuz u know its too late and before anything happens talk to your mum first then your bf.
TELL THE TRUTH! Seriously i know its hard but the best thing right now is to be completely open and honest about everything that's happened, with your mom and your boyfriend and whoever else who may be involved. Ya it's really difficult but u will be forgiven; right now you need help and the best place to get that help is from the people u care about most.
Well you should tell your boyfriend when you hang out once... And it's his decision if he wants to leave you or not. You're only 14 anyway, and if he does leave you, you have your whole life ahead of you to find someone else that will accept your baby. Everything you do has consequences, and this is one of it. And it's best to tell your mom soon. You will probably get a bunch of crap for it from your parents, but that's the right thing to do because they are the only one's who could help you. And what ever you do, don't get abortion! Have you watched 16 and pregnant? Those girls always have a hard time before they get their baby, and after too. But everything will be fine in the future. :) So just be truthful from now on, and everything will fall into its place. :) Good luck!
1. shouldn't lie, it makes things like this go a whole lot easier, remember this if there's a next time
2. obviously you tell him, the sooner you do it the easier, just make sure you tell him the whole truth
3. you still are too young, can't be too late for age to matter,
4. you don't have to break up with him...especially (sorry...has to be said) if he breaks up with you...and if that happens, there goes the whole love theory
anyways....there you go
calm down! im yonger then u cuz im 11 (almost 12 will b on 8/17) anyway culm down if u dont w to harm the baby tell ur grand parent on just ell ur mom that u NEED to tallk asap cuzz it has to do with growing up and tell her then for ur boy friend just call him meet a his house pick him up and go some were privet and say somthen like hay um i need to talk and tell u somthen i lied to u about and if hes under standing he might even wt to b the babys daddy and just tell him telling the truth works i no from experence...but if u got a dad around...i...wount tell him ust a worning
wow, that really sucks. Honestly, if you keep hiding all this, it just seems like its going to get worse. And there's going to be a point where youre big, and everyones going to know somethings up. It's only a matter of time before you actually h a v e to tell (unless, you terminate the pergnancy). Just sit them down i would do it separate and tell your bf the news. If he really cares about you the way your portait it, then he'll be understanding and help you through this. Its never good to lie to your mother, then again, things happen. Just tell her that you made a mistake that you learned from and im sure she'll come around. She's your mother, and youre her child, nothing can break a bond like that. Just own up to what you've done and gain their trust back. Its a lot to do, but it has to be done, good luck to you.
I need a good username for a girl (nearly 15) any ideas?
-...come on, you can think of something. :) Take your time, write some names down, use your imagination or just use simplicity. Either one will work.
Take care....come on, you can think of something. :) Take your time, write some names down, use your imagination or just use simplicity. Either one will work.
Take care.I agree with 'I got you'. We can't think of a name for you, you're you after all. It won't be creative or suit you if you aren't the one to come up with it.
XXmissXunoriginalXX
Itsjustme(:
" just me " hahaha....
cupcakemonster :)
the_girl_with_no_name
Take care....come on, you can think of something. :) Take your time, write some names down, use your imagination or just use simplicity. Either one will work.
Take care.I agree with 'I got you'. We can't think of a name for you, you're you after all. It won't be creative or suit you if you aren't the one to come up with it.
XXmissXunoriginalXX
Itsjustme(:
" just me " hahaha....
cupcakemonster :)
the_girl_with_no_name
I'm I getting ignored or?
-Is she not checking her emails?...I met a nice girl and we are emailing each other she seems pretty cool I'd like to get to know her better we both got alot incommon anyways she's making a Facebook so we can talk easier but in the middle of are conversation I had to leave I sent her an email q couple days ago and no response maybe she's not checking her email or she's ignoring me?....and if you read this question (I say you because you never told me your name) I hope I dont seem.....creepy I just want to talk to you more you seem cool :)Haha. I'm sorta stalking you on Yahoo!Answers now... You just seem really sad, so I checked your page out...
Calm down. (Some more.) She has a life outside her Facebook, too, you know. She could be busy, and she's not just checking her e-mail. Wait for a reply. Make some other online friends so that you'll always have some one to chat with online.Give it some time. She's new to facebook so she probably doesn't even know you messaged her. If she is ignoring you you'll only make it worse by messaging her repeatedly so drop it, communicate by other means if you have that option and see whats up.
It's been only a few days. I'd suggest that you give her more time. Maybe she got really busy with issues at work or home. You could wait for a week more and then mail her again or she may assume you've a forceful personality :)
Keep responding to her and when she finally starts talking to you again, ask her her name and really seem interested in her beyond just friendly chit-chat. Maybe she got busy. Good luck.
Yup.
she's not checking her emails. Why would she be ignoring you if you email each other so much?
yes
Calm down. (Some more.) She has a life outside her Facebook, too, you know. She could be busy, and she's not just checking her e-mail. Wait for a reply. Make some other online friends so that you'll always have some one to chat with online.Give it some time. She's new to facebook so she probably doesn't even know you messaged her. If she is ignoring you you'll only make it worse by messaging her repeatedly so drop it, communicate by other means if you have that option and see whats up.
It's been only a few days. I'd suggest that you give her more time. Maybe she got really busy with issues at work or home. You could wait for a week more and then mail her again or she may assume you've a forceful personality :)
Keep responding to her and when she finally starts talking to you again, ask her her name and really seem interested in her beyond just friendly chit-chat. Maybe she got busy. Good luck.
Yup.
she's not checking her emails. Why would she be ignoring you if you email each other so much?
yes
How do I deal with this "friend"?
-This girl in my class went through a big argument with her regular ring of friends a few months ago.. We don't know much about each other, but she came to me when her friends ditched her.. To make things short, I helped her a lot during that tough times.. I know it sounds conceited but it's the truth.. However, now she's starting to hang out with another girl (who happened to be my sorta-enemy) in class more.. She doesn't even look or talk to me anymore! And even if she's under the impression that I'm mad at her, doesn't she have the courtesy to at least discuss it with me?? What's this? She seemed to be the kind of person that forgets about the friends that helped her.. And I'm not the first person to receive this treatment from her.
I'm just going with the flow for now, but it really piss me off that she's so ungrateful.. What should I do now? Should I stand up to her? Coz I'm sick of being the one that always tries to help but receives nothing back.forgive her.
don't have any ill will against her.
God will make her realize her mistake.
I know how you feel. What I have done about ungrateful people is to learn that the things I do for people I have to do just because they need something and I am there and can help. If they are appreciative , that is wonderful and it feels good. However, many people don't notice what you do and they take it for granted. That does not mean that you were not a big help to them. You can feel great about that.
I just do what I can and move on. It is too much work to worry about whether or not I was appreciated. hope this helps. Keep on keeping on and keep doing good deeds. It always comes back to you but usually from somewhere or someone else.
It is good you have seen that it is not just you she has treated this way!
I do believe in a saying 'If you give them enough rope they hang themselves!' so I think you are doing the right thing by raising above her behaviour and getting on and doing your own thing, as if you leave her too it people will soon realise what she is like as she will show them herself!
You are a giving person and a lot of people appreciate this in a friend and will think really highly of you for being this way!
People who are more selfish like this girl will think well of you also, but because they are that selfish they are not able to return the same treatment back!
I understand it is annoying to feel someone has used you! But you can learn from this and not change your behaviour, but you can take a step back from a situation and think does this person deserve my time and kindness!
Some people will deserve it and be greatful, so do not let this girl change you! You can be more cautious and really learn from this experience!
I think you have done the right thing to rise above her and get on with your life, as she os not worth your breath!
If you want to you could write a letter to her explaining why you are angry with her and call her whatever you want! THEN you can rip it up and bury it and think this is an experience you are putting behind you!
Now you can have this knowledge and move on to think more of yourself and be confident you are a giving person, but are also aware there are the few selfish people who may take advantage and are not worth your effort!
I hope this helps xxxxxxxxxxxx
I'm just going with the flow for now, but it really piss me off that she's so ungrateful.. What should I do now? Should I stand up to her? Coz I'm sick of being the one that always tries to help but receives nothing back.forgive her.
don't have any ill will against her.
God will make her realize her mistake.
I know how you feel. What I have done about ungrateful people is to learn that the things I do for people I have to do just because they need something and I am there and can help. If they are appreciative , that is wonderful and it feels good. However, many people don't notice what you do and they take it for granted. That does not mean that you were not a big help to them. You can feel great about that.
I just do what I can and move on. It is too much work to worry about whether or not I was appreciated. hope this helps. Keep on keeping on and keep doing good deeds. It always comes back to you but usually from somewhere or someone else.
It is good you have seen that it is not just you she has treated this way!
I do believe in a saying 'If you give them enough rope they hang themselves!' so I think you are doing the right thing by raising above her behaviour and getting on and doing your own thing, as if you leave her too it people will soon realise what she is like as she will show them herself!
You are a giving person and a lot of people appreciate this in a friend and will think really highly of you for being this way!
People who are more selfish like this girl will think well of you also, but because they are that selfish they are not able to return the same treatment back!
I understand it is annoying to feel someone has used you! But you can learn from this and not change your behaviour, but you can take a step back from a situation and think does this person deserve my time and kindness!
Some people will deserve it and be greatful, so do not let this girl change you! You can be more cautious and really learn from this experience!
I think you have done the right thing to rise above her and get on with your life, as she os not worth your breath!
If you want to you could write a letter to her explaining why you are angry with her and call her whatever you want! THEN you can rip it up and bury it and think this is an experience you are putting behind you!
Now you can have this knowledge and move on to think more of yourself and be confident you are a giving person, but are also aware there are the few selfish people who may take advantage and are not worth your effort!
I hope this helps xxxxxxxxxxxx
He blocked his wall from me. I find this odd.?
-About a week ago, I posted on my friend's wall, a post about how special he is to me as a friend. (he's gay. just thought i should add this. so it's nothing romantic.) Then, the next morning, I notice that I can't see his wall anymore. I found this strange. What should I do about it? Should I talk to him about it? Or just let it go?Well. You are ruining his game. So many hot Guy friends he is trying to get with.He may have taken that out of context. I would seek him out to explain. If he had a significant other it may have been an issue
What wall? What in the bloody hell are you talking about?
well u shud talk to him about it tosee wat was the problem...
What wall? What in the bloody hell are you talking about?
well u shud talk to him about it tosee wat was the problem...
Like these guy but he hates?
-kk we use to hate each other but I don't hate him anymore I like him but he hates me and have a gf and I did be nice to him and everything strat bugging me did cry but still not working wat to do help plsumm.. its hard to say.. just be nice to him... guys like girls who r nice.. not only nice to him but everyone.. cause we guys actually can see if ur nice or no.. by seeing what u do to other people.. just dont talk to him for 3 days? mayb .. then start all over again like the whole thing is restarted. :) hope that helps.just come to an agreement.. nd become neutral.. nd see where it goes...
How to make friends again?
-I am currently in my senior year in highschool, I have like 15 close friends or more,....
but then senior year started and it seemed like I lost 10 of those friends, I've known them for like 4 years now and they're just gone after summer, they don't talk to me much, we don't have much communication.
I became like a loner, no one to talk to.....
I dunno if they are really true friends or not, coz I have my friends from 5th and 6th grade and I only knew them for like 2 years but nothing ever changed, we're closer than ever even if we only see each other for like 2-3weeks in a year and we still have communication (e.g. emails, fb, video chats, text etc.)
I met new people though, made new friends, but that's just because my old friends aren't really talking to me anymore and they started to make friends with other people as well...
I can't believe that a 2 years relation can be stronger than a 4 years relation.
I don't know if there was something I did, did I change or did they just change?
I miss the moments we've spent together, I miss my freshmen years, sophomore years and junior years... I really don't like the senior year, but it's still early to tell. maybe things might still change...
Can I be close to my friends again?
How? I miss all of themWow, sounds kind of like what happened to me -_- I lost a majority of my highschool friends to them making new friends or just moving on with their life. I keep in communication with only two and they both live too far to drive to. One is 5 hours and the other is across the country!
Sometimes I wonder if that's just normal? Maybe it's just a part of growing up?? Who knows. But in MY opinion, a true friend does not abandon one for new friends. For people like that, friendship becomes fashion.... in one season, out the other.
but then senior year started and it seemed like I lost 10 of those friends, I've known them for like 4 years now and they're just gone after summer, they don't talk to me much, we don't have much communication.
I became like a loner, no one to talk to.....
I dunno if they are really true friends or not, coz I have my friends from 5th and 6th grade and I only knew them for like 2 years but nothing ever changed, we're closer than ever even if we only see each other for like 2-3weeks in a year and we still have communication (e.g. emails, fb, video chats, text etc.)
I met new people though, made new friends, but that's just because my old friends aren't really talking to me anymore and they started to make friends with other people as well...
I can't believe that a 2 years relation can be stronger than a 4 years relation.
I don't know if there was something I did, did I change or did they just change?
I miss the moments we've spent together, I miss my freshmen years, sophomore years and junior years... I really don't like the senior year, but it's still early to tell. maybe things might still change...
Can I be close to my friends again?
How? I miss all of themWow, sounds kind of like what happened to me -_- I lost a majority of my highschool friends to them making new friends or just moving on with their life. I keep in communication with only two and they both live too far to drive to. One is 5 hours and the other is across the country!
Sometimes I wonder if that's just normal? Maybe it's just a part of growing up?? Who knows. But in MY opinion, a true friend does not abandon one for new friends. For people like that, friendship becomes fashion.... in one season, out the other.
How to tell your best friend that you had made another best friend without hurting her feelings?
-I have found a super cool best friend but i dont know how to to tell my old best friend about it you might be wondering why i would leave my old best friend that has some personal reasons I wanna tell her that i have found another best friend but i dont know how to do that. Thanks =)dont. just hang out with her less and less and soon you will loose contact. easy&simple (:you can have two best friends. but you dont really have to tell her just if she asks whos your best friend just say i dont know prob (put the other girls name here) and if she looks sad just say no maybe you idk i have alot of best friends
My mom is planning to give me away?
-My mom and I just had a fight. My mom says that she can`t handle me cutting and not eating anymore, so she said that she is going to send me away to someone`s house, somewhere where I won`t get any privacy. My parents are divorced, and I can`t stay with my dad because he works almost 24/7. My mom said that I am spoiled, a brat, and a attention seeker. She said that she is stressed out and she doesn`t want to take care of me anymore. What should I do? I am 14... :(Write a letter about how you feel & read it to her. How about you'll help take responsibilty with the house & you'll be more respectful! Tell her how you will listen to her more! Good luck =)Is there a reason you're cutting yourself and not eating?...Maybe tell your mom you're willing to change if you can get some help. Like a psychologist of some sort. That should help with your emotional problems. Usually when someone cuts it's to get attention and basically a physical way of saying you want help.
ask your mom before she sends you away if she would send you to get some counselling and if after a period of time that she hasnt seen any improvement then your willing to live with someone else
Who cares? You should be excited to have foster parents...maybe they'll take you to Disneyland or neverland an see Michael Jackson...start packing cause it's gonna be a long ride...
Do what she says and stop acting like an attention seeker you spoiled brat.
Change !!!
don't cut and eat .. do what she want
ask your mom before she sends you away if she would send you to get some counselling and if after a period of time that she hasnt seen any improvement then your willing to live with someone else
Who cares? You should be excited to have foster parents...maybe they'll take you to Disneyland or neverland an see Michael Jackson...start packing cause it's gonna be a long ride...
Do what she says and stop acting like an attention seeker you spoiled brat.
Change !!!
don't cut and eat .. do what she want
When a man tells a friend that she is a kryptonite to them what does that mean? Is it good or bad?
-kryptonite was superman`s biggest weakness... so in that sense the girl is his weakness...he just cant live without her...his biggest weakness.kryptonite was superman`s biggest weakness... so in that sense the girl is his weakness...he just cant live without her...his biggest weakness.Read this, and you'll understand:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kryptonite
It means she's killing him.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kryptonite
It means she's killing him.
My friends are ditching my for my other friends!?
-I had a group of friends who were in my form, and then another group of friends who I knew quite well because we did dance and together. These people all go to my school, and I used to hang around with them pretty much equally. One day, one of my friends from one group was ill, so the other two people asked if they could sit with me and my form friends at lunch. It was fine, but then they started going off and leaving me out. It wasn't too bad at first, but the other day they did this massive sleep over thing and all went shopping and stuff and didn't invite me! They say they forgot but that makes me feel even worse because it means that I don't matter enough to them for them to remember. They always have inside jokes and stuff and it is getting really embarrassing and annoying. I don't want to make new friends because everyone else I know, apart from like 2 people (who hate each other) doesn't like me or won't talk to me. I don't know if I should talk to my "friends" about it or not...Please help
Oh, and sorry about the essay (^o^)Confront them. Ask them if there's something wrong with your friendship and vise versa.
Relax and tell them you feel left alone. Open a forum that will make your friendship greater and stronger.
I hope this helps. :)
Stand up for what you know right.
Listen to your heart's most reasonable answer. Look for it.
I'm sure you will find your path.
Good luck.
Hey buddy....:)
Wow..that's mean. I feel like you do a-lot. I hangout with a big group of girls and I usually feel like I don't matter and like if i'm left out a-lot. People don't even invite me to things personally and instead I have to figure out in the last minute. That makes me feel like poo! I say you talk to them about it without seeming like you care too much or else they can think that if you don't have them you have no one. Iv'e done this and they say I'm exaggerating but I try to do other stuff so that I won't look dependent on them. If they don't care after you told them then they're not even good friends.
Look I now it's hard on you and all, but you have to wake up and smell the fresh air these people you call "Friends" aren't really your friends, there just using you. This would be really hard on you but maybe you should just start hanging out with another group, if they come crawling back just ignore them, if worst comes to worst you end up being a loner. or you can just go and tell them how you feel it dose work but not all the time.
By the way I had the same problem, it is hard, Good Luck
Oh, and sorry about the essay (^o^)Confront them. Ask them if there's something wrong with your friendship and vise versa.
Relax and tell them you feel left alone. Open a forum that will make your friendship greater and stronger.
I hope this helps. :)
Stand up for what you know right.
Listen to your heart's most reasonable answer. Look for it.
I'm sure you will find your path.
Good luck.
Hey buddy....:)
Wow..that's mean. I feel like you do a-lot. I hangout with a big group of girls and I usually feel like I don't matter and like if i'm left out a-lot. People don't even invite me to things personally and instead I have to figure out in the last minute. That makes me feel like poo! I say you talk to them about it without seeming like you care too much or else they can think that if you don't have them you have no one. Iv'e done this and they say I'm exaggerating but I try to do other stuff so that I won't look dependent on them. If they don't care after you told them then they're not even good friends.
Look I now it's hard on you and all, but you have to wake up and smell the fresh air these people you call "Friends" aren't really your friends, there just using you. This would be really hard on you but maybe you should just start hanging out with another group, if they come crawling back just ignore them, if worst comes to worst you end up being a loner. or you can just go and tell them how you feel it dose work but not all the time.
By the way I had the same problem, it is hard, Good Luck
How do I deal with this "friend"?
-This girl in my class went through a big argument with her regular ring of friends a few months ago.. We don't know much about each other, but she came to me when her friends ditched her.. To make things short, I helped her a lot during that tough times.. I know it sounds conceited but it's the truth.. However, now she's starting to hang out with another girl (who happened to be my sorta-enemy) in class more.. She doesn't even look or talk to me anymore! And even if she's under the impression that I'm mad at her, doesn't she have the courtesy to at least discuss it with me?? What's this? She seemed to be the kind of person that forgets about the friends that helped her.. And I'm not the first person to receive this treatment from her.
I'm just going with the flow for now, but it really piss me off that she's so ungrateful.. What should I do now? Should I stand up to her? Coz I'm sick of being the one that always tries to help but receives nothing back.forgive her.
don't have any ill will against her.
God will make her realize her mistake.
I know how you feel. What I have done about ungrateful people is to learn that the things I do for people I have to do just because they need something and I am there and can help. If they are appreciative , that is wonderful and it feels good. However, many people don't notice what you do and they take it for granted. That does not mean that you were not a big help to them. You can feel great about that.
I just do what I can and move on. It is too much work to worry about whether or not I was appreciated. hope this helps. Keep on keeping on and keep doing good deeds. It always comes back to you but usually from somewhere or someone else.
It is good you have seen that it is not just you she has treated this way!
I do believe in a saying 'If you give them enough rope they hang themselves!' so I think you are doing the right thing by raising above her behaviour and getting on and doing your own thing, as if you leave her too it people will soon realise what she is like as she will show them herself!
You are a giving person and a lot of people appreciate this in a friend and will think really highly of you for being this way!
People who are more selfish like this girl will think well of you also, but because they are that selfish they are not able to return the same treatment back!
I understand it is annoying to feel someone has used you! But you can learn from this and not change your behaviour, but you can take a step back from a situation and think does this person deserve my time and kindness!
Some people will deserve it and be greatful, so do not let this girl change you! You can be more cautious and really learn from this experience!
I think you have done the right thing to rise above her and get on with your life, as she os not worth your breath!
If you want to you could write a letter to her explaining why you are angry with her and call her whatever you want! THEN you can rip it up and bury it and think this is an experience you are putting behind you!
Now you can have this knowledge and move on to think more of yourself and be confident you are a giving person, but are also aware there are the few selfish people who may take advantage and are not worth your effort!
I hope this helps xxxxxxxxxxxx
I'm just going with the flow for now, but it really piss me off that she's so ungrateful.. What should I do now? Should I stand up to her? Coz I'm sick of being the one that always tries to help but receives nothing back.forgive her.
don't have any ill will against her.
God will make her realize her mistake.
I know how you feel. What I have done about ungrateful people is to learn that the things I do for people I have to do just because they need something and I am there and can help. If they are appreciative , that is wonderful and it feels good. However, many people don't notice what you do and they take it for granted. That does not mean that you were not a big help to them. You can feel great about that.
I just do what I can and move on. It is too much work to worry about whether or not I was appreciated. hope this helps. Keep on keeping on and keep doing good deeds. It always comes back to you but usually from somewhere or someone else.
It is good you have seen that it is not just you she has treated this way!
I do believe in a saying 'If you give them enough rope they hang themselves!' so I think you are doing the right thing by raising above her behaviour and getting on and doing your own thing, as if you leave her too it people will soon realise what she is like as she will show them herself!
You are a giving person and a lot of people appreciate this in a friend and will think really highly of you for being this way!
People who are more selfish like this girl will think well of you also, but because they are that selfish they are not able to return the same treatment back!
I understand it is annoying to feel someone has used you! But you can learn from this and not change your behaviour, but you can take a step back from a situation and think does this person deserve my time and kindness!
Some people will deserve it and be greatful, so do not let this girl change you! You can be more cautious and really learn from this experience!
I think you have done the right thing to rise above her and get on with your life, as she os not worth your breath!
If you want to you could write a letter to her explaining why you are angry with her and call her whatever you want! THEN you can rip it up and bury it and think this is an experience you are putting behind you!
Now you can have this knowledge and move on to think more of yourself and be confident you are a giving person, but are also aware there are the few selfish people who may take advantage and are not worth your effort!
I hope this helps xxxxxxxxxxxx
Making friends in community college?
-I'll be attending community college next month as a freshman, and I've been worrying about how my social life is gonna be. I had no friends in high school because I was quiet and a little shy. I also wasn't ever involved in anything like everyone else, therefore it was hard to make and maintain friendships.
I'm a nice guy and I'm funny once you get to know me (or so I've been told), but what I wanna know is, are people more open minded and accepting in community college, or do they try to form cliques with people they know from high school? I've heard it goes both ways, but if you're similar to me, what was your transition like from high school to community college?Just get invloved. Don't be shy.
Join clubs (if there are any)
Be forward and be yourself.
Don't try and be someone else to get friends.
Just be yourself, but a little more forward.
Be talkative and think about what you will say in conversations to avoid awkward silences.
Ask questions, don't just answer when people ask you something. People like it when you show interest. Doesn't just work on dates :pFriends are over rated I have 2 good friends I've known most of my life, and I have no interest in making new friends. I just raise my daughter now and besides humans suck.
I understand how you feel and I am exactly like you and shy. I graduated high school 2 years ago, which to me seems a long time ago. I remember the people at school to be very territorial and not that open and many at times very immature. It was boring because there were no outer connections to people besides in the school. And yes I was in an all boys private school which was worse.
But now I go to technical college which is like uni but on a smaller scale. The people here are more diverse with very interesting agendas. They seem to be more open and friendly because they are there to learn the things they are interested in ,which is unlike school. I generally find it easier to approach people and be approached. I think uni in some sense is like a village in its own right and definately has a better atmosphere than school. I am sure you will connect to some others, and remember sometimes it takes time. Best of luck
I'm a nice guy and I'm funny once you get to know me (or so I've been told), but what I wanna know is, are people more open minded and accepting in community college, or do they try to form cliques with people they know from high school? I've heard it goes both ways, but if you're similar to me, what was your transition like from high school to community college?Just get invloved. Don't be shy.
Join clubs (if there are any)
Be forward and be yourself.
Don't try and be someone else to get friends.
Just be yourself, but a little more forward.
Be talkative and think about what you will say in conversations to avoid awkward silences.
Ask questions, don't just answer when people ask you something. People like it when you show interest. Doesn't just work on dates :pFriends are over rated I have 2 good friends I've known most of my life, and I have no interest in making new friends. I just raise my daughter now and besides humans suck.
I understand how you feel and I am exactly like you and shy. I graduated high school 2 years ago, which to me seems a long time ago. I remember the people at school to be very territorial and not that open and many at times very immature. It was boring because there were no outer connections to people besides in the school. And yes I was in an all boys private school which was worse.
But now I go to technical college which is like uni but on a smaller scale. The people here are more diverse with very interesting agendas. They seem to be more open and friendly because they are there to learn the things they are interested in ,which is unlike school. I generally find it easier to approach people and be approached. I think uni in some sense is like a village in its own right and definately has a better atmosphere than school. I am sure you will connect to some others, and remember sometimes it takes time. Best of luck
How do i gain friends? ?
-I'm really shy. Have maybe 3 good friends (at least I think) I don't have many peoples numbers but I would like to talk to more people. I've gone to school with the same people for about 7 years and don't talk to most of them. What can I say to be there friend and it not be weird? If it helps I was in a controlling relationship for 2 year and got out 3 months ago. I gave up all my friends cuz of him. Please help :(I think that you should meet new people instead. This will help you evolve from the already person you are. Don't adhere yourself to the past a lot as it will consume you even more. I've noticed that shy people get friends automatically much more as they tend to be 'mysteriously' interesting. The first thing you should do is to relate yourself to them; see the common things that tingle you with them and things will go great thereafter!
Good luck.Be generally nice to people and talk to the people that you're sort of friends with but not close. Smile at people, they will probably smile right back and you can get talking! Just talk and smile!
Get people gifts make a party for everyone to come make it good
hmmm i was in the same problem and still am add me http://www.facebook.com/tommy.tonka.trucks and we can talk about it :)
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Good luck.Be generally nice to people and talk to the people that you're sort of friends with but not close. Smile at people, they will probably smile right back and you can get talking! Just talk and smile!
Get people gifts make a party for everyone to come make it good
hmmm i was in the same problem and still am add me http://www.facebook.com/tommy.tonka.trucks and we can talk about it :)
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I never know what to do when someone is crying?
-Ok so rarely i see people cry. But yesterday my mom was crying because my aunt said some really mean things to her... like so bad i cant repeat it because it would appear as stars. Anyways i didnt know what to do or say to make her feel better. What should i do next time?You should give her a big hug and try and make her feel better. Encourage her to stand up for herself and you should defend your mum too, don't allow anybody to disrespect her in such a way.
Some people are cruel and enjoy hurting others, why? Because they spot a weaker personality in someone and see an easy victim. If your mum became more assertive and confident, bullies like your aunt would think twice about picking on her again, good luck.When you don't know what to say to a hurting person then just provide your presence...I'm sure that just knowing that someone is there for you will make you feel better....but since your mom is hurt by what your aunt had said then you can assure her that what ur aunt said is not true (if it's not really true) or (if its true) tell her that you will still love her no matter what!
I ignore it, or at least I say generic lame things like "heh don't worry sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me" or "it's okay don't worry (something generic to say that makes people feel better)
please you may just try to take a glass of water for her and try to say something else and try keep her mind others are foolish people hence they are talk like this. and give hug to your mom
Some people are cruel and enjoy hurting others, why? Because they spot a weaker personality in someone and see an easy victim. If your mum became more assertive and confident, bullies like your aunt would think twice about picking on her again, good luck.When you don't know what to say to a hurting person then just provide your presence...I'm sure that just knowing that someone is there for you will make you feel better....but since your mom is hurt by what your aunt had said then you can assure her that what ur aunt said is not true (if it's not really true) or (if its true) tell her that you will still love her no matter what!
I ignore it, or at least I say generic lame things like "heh don't worry sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me" or "it's okay don't worry (something generic to say that makes people feel better)
please you may just try to take a glass of water for her and try to say something else and try keep her mind others are foolish people hence they are talk like this. and give hug to your mom
What does being called fake mean?
-I don't know why but people are saying stuff like "oh shes so fake"...
but I was just wondering what does it mean when your called that?It means people can see through you, and know you are not genuine, That you exaggerate, lie, talk about friends behind their back, and don't ever say what you actually feel.That that person is two faced and is almost acting all the time and not being the person she actually is, like she could say to you 'oh that looks really nice' and then walk off and say the her friend 'did you see what she was wearing!?!'
Or it could mean like she wears fake tan, fake nails, fake eyelashes, loads of make-up& hair extensions. And is really fake.
Hope this helped :)
It could mean a few things. It could mean that they wear a lot of make-up and that's not what they really look like under all of it.
It could also mean that they're two-faced and/or trying to be someone they're not.
Hope this helps!
It means that your looks aren't natural and you wear a lot of make up to look better so technically what people are seeing as you isn't you is a 'fake' version because that's not actually what you look like! Hope this helps!
She's often two faced, she displays a certain attitude around others, and isn't fair around all friends. It doesn't necessarily mean your fake because you wear makeup.
It means you are phony. The person is trying to be someone who they are not.
She wears a lot of makeup, shes a whore, she isn't what she seems likes. I'da know, stuff like that?
Means your not bein yourself
it means that you are trying to be someone you are not you are not being yourself
but I was just wondering what does it mean when your called that?It means people can see through you, and know you are not genuine, That you exaggerate, lie, talk about friends behind their back, and don't ever say what you actually feel.That that person is two faced and is almost acting all the time and not being the person she actually is, like she could say to you 'oh that looks really nice' and then walk off and say the her friend 'did you see what she was wearing!?!'
Or it could mean like she wears fake tan, fake nails, fake eyelashes, loads of make-up& hair extensions. And is really fake.
Hope this helped :)
It could mean a few things. It could mean that they wear a lot of make-up and that's not what they really look like under all of it.
It could also mean that they're two-faced and/or trying to be someone they're not.
Hope this helps!
It means that your looks aren't natural and you wear a lot of make up to look better so technically what people are seeing as you isn't you is a 'fake' version because that's not actually what you look like! Hope this helps!
She's often two faced, she displays a certain attitude around others, and isn't fair around all friends. It doesn't necessarily mean your fake because you wear makeup.
It means you are phony. The person is trying to be someone who they are not.
She wears a lot of makeup, shes a whore, she isn't what she seems likes. I'da know, stuff like that?
Means your not bein yourself
it means that you are trying to be someone you are not you are not being yourself
Why is my mum being so out of order with this...? Please answer?
-I'm 13 and she's not letting me (im a girl) stay round my mates who is a boy, with my best mate and his best mate. I know them all really well, and yeah, i fancy the best mate but its like she doesn't trust me, Im not going to do anything, why isnt she letting me stay round?!I'm going to venture a guess and say it's because she loves you and cares about the decisions you make in your life. That's probably not what you'd like to hear. It sounds like there is a trust problem and the only real way to solve that is to communicate. Sit down with your mother, ask her calmly and respectfully what the issues are and then listen. When she's done, it's your turn to tell her what you think. If this is done with love and respect on both of your parts, you may vastly improve your relationship with your mother. There's always room for improvement.
She may be fearful of you ending up sexually active or worse, with an unwanted baby. Thirteen year old girls and boys have hormones ranging through their bodies without the maturity they need yet to control their urges. Not all. But some. And your mother may not be willing to take the chance that you could be taken advantage of. Still, with all this... communication is the key. It's always the key!
Love and light,
McCartney GreenBecause she probably can tell you like one of them but more importantly she probably is worried that ppl will get the wrong idea about you if you were to hang out with all guys.
She may be fearful of you ending up sexually active or worse, with an unwanted baby. Thirteen year old girls and boys have hormones ranging through their bodies without the maturity they need yet to control their urges. Not all. But some. And your mother may not be willing to take the chance that you could be taken advantage of. Still, with all this... communication is the key. It's always the key!
Love and light,
McCartney GreenBecause she probably can tell you like one of them but more importantly she probably is worried that ppl will get the wrong idea about you if you were to hang out with all guys.
I really want to her this? advice please?
-I want to finally confront my "friend" We were good friends before I started working at the same place. I just want to tell her how feel that she abandon me as a friend. I used always initiate convo with her at work. She would not speak to me in front of the boss. The boss did not like me. I felt it was because of my friend and not work related. My ex friend would tell my boss things about me at work and then my boss would ask me things about our friendship at work. I did not like that. I just felt that she distance herself from me to be even closer to the boss. She is really an ***-kisser. I am leaving my job anyway so why not confront the girl? I am leaving to go to school. And my boss is in her late for 40's and my "friend" is in her early 20's It Its kind of weird their relationship is so close and protective where I think that they are Lesbians,,, advice pleaseDon't be a chicken ****.
Confront her. Confrontation solves at least 90% of people's personal problems.Well, if your leaving then if it makes you feel better then ask her to go for a drink and ask her what is up with all of that and see what she has to say. If they are lesbians then maybe the boss didn't like you because she seen you as a threat in their relationship and your friend clamed up so she wouldn't cause more drama in their relationship.
Confront her, ,and tell her exactly what you think. Dont let her know it hurt you though, shell probablu laugh about it with the boss when you leave. just tell her you think she's an absolute as* kissing ****** and that you feel embarrassed -for her- because her behavior is so atrocious.
then walk out the door without looking back, before she has a chance to respond.
Confront her. Confrontation solves at least 90% of people's personal problems.Well, if your leaving then if it makes you feel better then ask her to go for a drink and ask her what is up with all of that and see what she has to say. If they are lesbians then maybe the boss didn't like you because she seen you as a threat in their relationship and your friend clamed up so she wouldn't cause more drama in their relationship.
Confront her, ,and tell her exactly what you think. Dont let her know it hurt you though, shell probablu laugh about it with the boss when you leave. just tell her you think she's an absolute as* kissing ****** and that you feel embarrassed -for her- because her behavior is so atrocious.
then walk out the door without looking back, before she has a chance to respond.
I caught my friend........?
-i caught my friend naked with a few penis shaped objects, you can probs gueess the rest. Im not sure if i should tell him that i saw him, or tell anyone else about this, helpignore the dickheads who have said u should tell him
you really shouldnt tell him. it would hurt his feelings and ur friendship. imagine if it was you ? would you be really hurt, embarassed and humiliated ? yes you would and he would probably never be abl to look you in the eye again .. so don't !It'd be hilarious if you told him, but that wouldn't be right. He'd get all embarrassed and stuff. You could just pretend like it never happened at all and get on with life. Though everytime you see him you'd start thinking of that...and then laughXD
you really shouldnt tell him. it would hurt his feelings and ur friendship. imagine if it was you ? would you be really hurt, embarassed and humiliated ? yes you would and he would probably never be abl to look you in the eye again .. so don't !It'd be hilarious if you told him, but that wouldn't be right. He'd get all embarrassed and stuff. You could just pretend like it never happened at all and get on with life. Though everytime you see him you'd start thinking of that...and then laughXD
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Any girl wants to talk with a 17 y/o?
-Im bored and I just want to meet someone new.Im good looking and a nice dude.Heres my personal email.
illbxboii@aol.com
Email me your number if you want to textu r a pedo
if u want to meet some new, true fds, go out and mix around.
illbxboii@aol.com
Email me your number if you want to textu r a pedo
if u want to meet some new, true fds, go out and mix around.
I'm I getting ignored or?
-Is she not checking her emails?...I met a nice girl and we are emailing each other she seems pretty cool I'd like to get to know her better we both got alot incommon anyways she's making a Facebook so we can talk easier but in the middle of are conversation I had to leave I sent her an email q couple days ago and no response maybe she's not checking her email or she's ignoring me?....and if you read this question (I say you because you never told me your name) I hope I dont seem.....creepy I just want to talk to you more you seem cool :)Haha. I'm sorta stalking you on Yahoo!Answers now... You just seem really sad, so I checked your page out...
Calm down. (Some more.) She has a life outside her Facebook, too, you know. She could be busy, and she's not just checking her e-mail. Wait for a reply. Make some other online friends so that you'll always have some one to chat with online.Give it some time. She's new to facebook so she probably doesn't even know you messaged her. If she is ignoring you you'll only make it worse by messaging her repeatedly so drop it, communicate by other means if you have that option and see whats up.
It's been only a few days. I'd suggest that you give her more time. Maybe she got really busy with issues at work or home. You could wait for a week more and then mail her again or she may assume you've a forceful personality :)
Keep responding to her and when she finally starts talking to you again, ask her her name and really seem interested in her beyond just friendly chit-chat. Maybe she got busy. Good luck.
Yup.
she's not checking her emails. Why would she be ignoring you if you email each other so much?
yes
Calm down. (Some more.) She has a life outside her Facebook, too, you know. She could be busy, and she's not just checking her e-mail. Wait for a reply. Make some other online friends so that you'll always have some one to chat with online.Give it some time. She's new to facebook so she probably doesn't even know you messaged her. If she is ignoring you you'll only make it worse by messaging her repeatedly so drop it, communicate by other means if you have that option and see whats up.
It's been only a few days. I'd suggest that you give her more time. Maybe she got really busy with issues at work or home. You could wait for a week more and then mail her again or she may assume you've a forceful personality :)
Keep responding to her and when she finally starts talking to you again, ask her her name and really seem interested in her beyond just friendly chit-chat. Maybe she got busy. Good luck.
Yup.
she's not checking her emails. Why would she be ignoring you if you email each other so much?
yes
He blocked his wall from me. I find this odd.?
-About a week ago, I posted on my friend's wall, a post about how special he is to me as a friend. (he's gay. just thought i should add this. so it's nothing romantic.) Then, the next morning, I notice that I can't see his wall anymore. I found this strange. What should I do about it? Should I talk to him about it? Or just let it go?Well. You are ruining his game. So many hot Guy friends he is trying to get with.He may have taken that out of context. I would seek him out to explain. If he had a significant other it may have been an issue
What wall? What in the bloody hell are you talking about?
well u shud talk to him about it tosee wat was the problem...
What wall? What in the bloody hell are you talking about?
well u shud talk to him about it tosee wat was the problem...
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