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2011年8月4日星期四

I Don't Know What to Make of This?

-Some friends and I went out of town to enjoy a 3-day event. As with any event, it usually starts around a certain time, so it was important to get there, punctual-wise. I and another friend were waiting in the hotel lobby for the rest of the gang. Well 3 other friends were taking their time coming downstairs. I got upset and started venting to the friend, she seemed to understand, and the day went on w/all of us having a good time. She (the friend waiting with me in the lobby) calls me to tell me that she was 'dissapointed' in me for 'getting upset', and that I shouldn't expect "people to do what I want them to do". So, now, she's distancing herself from me. Was I wrong to get upset? I don't know what to do. Any advice?No,you weren't!

explain to them that when there is a certain time that the event starts,all of them should be at their time.you dont want people to do what you want them to do.you just got upset because they didnt come at their time. also put more emphasis on that when you have "a date"(even if it is to go all together at the evend) you should be always at your time.if you dont,your friends wont feel able to trust you so your friendship will be destroyed.



I hope i helped:)

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