-Okay so I realize that this question might be a little long. Okay so I have been best friends with this boy for about 2 years now. We have known each other though since we were 12, but anyways. I know he has liked me in the past about a year ago, but neither of us did anything. But he his back from college this summer and this summer is so much different than the last. He goes to college about two hours away and I am still in our home town.
See we have never really hung out alone ever until this summer. We always hang out with our big group of friends. Well this summer he has come over to my house a couple times and I have gone over to his too. Don't take this the wrong way, but we usually watch movies in his bedroom and we end up falling asleep. I wake up and leave before his parents get the wrong impression of me. Not that they would care because they have known me for a really long time, but I didn't want them thinking we were doing anything when we aren't. At one of my friends parties at the begining of the summer someone told him to pull me aside and kiss me. My girl friend told me that he was going to do this and he attempted to pull me aside many times that night, but I didn't want him to kiss me on a sort of dare while he was a little tipsy.
See the problem is though that he is a naturally flirty guy. He flirts with all his girl friends and it's hard to know if I am any different. I have liked him for a year and a half now and it is going to be so much harder to see him leave again for college without me saying anything because I think I might be falling in love with him. It's not like I never get to see him during the year because he visits all the time, but I'm not sure what to do.
Any help is much appreciated!Thats what happens in most situations like yours, best friends always end up liking each other. I would say that he likes you too but im not sure, i mean if he really takes the time to come visit i would say he definitely likes you too unless he really really cares for you. I think that you should tell him how you feel about him because you might regret it, maybe his waiting for you to say something because his too shy or thinks that you might back off. So i think you should just tell him the way you feel :)DONT DO IT! I was best friends with a boy for nearly 8 years. When we got older we started to well "Play doctor" and eventually I fell completely in love with him. We always talked like we where dating but when he was single I would be dating someone and the other way around. Eventually I told him I loved him and wanted to be with him. He told me the same thing but we just couldn't yet because he had a gf. Well after that things started getting awkward I would be crying over him and missing him wanting him, and he started getting creeped out I guess. We haven't seen eachother in about 2 years and I miss his friendship more then anything and I wish I could take everything back.
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