Why is my mum being so out of order with this...? Please answer?

-I'm 13 and she's not letting me (im a girl) stay round my mates who is a boy, with my best mate and his best mate. I know them all really well, and yeah, i fancy the best mate but its like she doesn't trust me, Im not going to do anything, why isnt she letting me stay round?!I'm going to venture a guess and say it's because she loves you and cares about the decisions you make in your life. That's probably not what you'd like to hear. It sounds like there is a trust problem and the only real way to solve that is to communicate. Sit down with your mother, ask her calmly and respectfully what the issues are and then listen. When she's done, it's your turn to tell her what you think. If this is done with love and respect on both of your parts, you may vastly improve your relationship with your mother. There's always room for improvement.



She may be fearful of you ending up sexually active or worse, with an unwanted baby. Thirteen year old girls and boys have hormones ranging through their bodies without the maturity they need yet to control their urges. Not all. But some. And your mother may not be willing to take the chance that you could be taken advantage of. Still, with all this... communication is the key. It's always the key!



Love and light,

McCartney GreenBecause she probably can tell you like one of them but more importantly she probably is worried that ppl will get the wrong idea about you if you were to hang out with all guys.