-It's 2 weeks in the summer holidays, and lately my main friends haven't spoken to me, I have a few other friends which I talk to normally but i'm much much closer to my main friends.
It seems i'm always the one to have to say Hi to start a conversation on Facebook, or in real life, if I don't start the conversation they could go all holidays without talking to me.
I'm fed up of looking out for people, contacting them first, when they don't return the favour. :-(
I see my main friends on fb talking to eachother all the time, and i just feel excluded.
I think i'm not going to talk to them, but hang out with my other friends & when i see them next at school I will tell them?
What do you think I should do?
Thankyou for your time! :-)If you feel it is always you making the effort, then it may be a good idea to back away for a bit and wait till you do see them or they make some effort!
It is no bad reflection of you if they are not getting in contact! It may just mean that they think of you as a good friend and reliable so know you are likely to speak to them, or it could be they just get wrapped up in other things and are a bit thoughtless to your feelings sometimes!
To see if they are worth you putting your effort into, I think you have got the right idea! As all you are doing is carrying on with your life and you are not actually blanking them, so you are doing nothing wrong!
If your other friends are nicer and stay in contact more, then I think it is a good idea for you to see them and stay in contact with them more!
Facebook is not always good, as if you were sat there with these girls and not at a computer they would not be ignoring you, so if they are good friends in real life that is the main thing!
I think you are doing the right thing, as you can then put your effort into your friends that make an effort with you! These girls may get back in contact with you before school if the penny drops they have not spoken to you for a while and they will have to put the effort in!
If they do not, you have nothing to worry about! As when yo usee them at school you can be friendly and pleased to see them + if any of them do ask why you had not got in contact you can explain you were busy with your other friends and had other things going on! You caould also add in a nice way 'You should have sent me a text to catch up!' or something along those lines!
I hope you enjoy the rest of your holiday with your other friends! The girls who you make the effort with probably do not realise how you feel and take for granted you will contact them! So this may do some good to put your effort into others and see what happens!
Hope this helps xxxxxxxxxxxxI am the same way..... But the opposite, for some reason people talk to me when I don't like Talking to people. For the people who don't talk to me, I leave them alone or give a simple "nod" or a "chin raise" when I see them in person. If my friends want to talk to me then they say hi first, if they dont I leave em alone. I say you do the same, if they want to say hi they will say hi. But it doesn't hurt to say hi first every once and a while
Im having the same problems as you!
The best way is to tell them how you feel. Maybe its just that they need some space. Give them some time and when you get back to school, you might find that they're a lot friendlier, and you guys can sort things out then. =) hope it helped
You should let them get on with it, if they don't make any effort with you then don't make any with them. They aren't worth worrying about, especially when you have other friends who do respect you. I hope you have a nice holiday.
I totally understand that behaviour. Well, honestly, you should just leave them alone and stick to those who truly like you. Those other friends don't deserve you :)
Never feel bad, kay? :D
I have the same problem! But eventually they talk to me but if they are becoming more distant then open your mind to new friends and wait a week when school gets back in to see what happens :) hope I helped
This has happened to me once but I just ignored the until they kept calling me, in the meantime do something you would enjoy which would help you forget about your friends for abit.
Well they don't sound very much like main friends to me. You should just dump them and stick with your other friends
Dump em and if a couple or sum comes back then they r ur true friends. Stay occupid with the 1s u talk to now
same thing here
they're not very nice x
This happens to me :( I have alot of friends but i dont really hang out with anyone outside of school except for my BEST FREIND. i only really talk to her outside of school but i always get jealous of her because she seems to have this great social life outside of school and I don't. BUT last week i decided i was gonna get closer to all my friends and i think you should try with me! Just try and talk to them more. Even if its just online :) start talking to them casually and eventually they will want to talk to you :) hope this helped :)
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