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2011年8月4日星期四

How to make friends again?

-I am currently in my senior year in highschool, I have like 15 close friends or more,....

but then senior year started and it seemed like I lost 10 of those friends, I've known them for like 4 years now and they're just gone after summer, they don't talk to me much, we don't have much communication.



I became like a loner, no one to talk to.....



I dunno if they are really true friends or not, coz I have my friends from 5th and 6th grade and I only knew them for like 2 years but nothing ever changed, we're closer than ever even if we only see each other for like 2-3weeks in a year and we still have communication (e.g. emails, fb, video chats, text etc.)



I met new people though, made new friends, but that's just because my old friends aren't really talking to me anymore and they started to make friends with other people as well...



I can't believe that a 2 years relation can be stronger than a 4 years relation.

I don't know if there was something I did, did I change or did they just change?



I miss the moments we've spent together, I miss my freshmen years, sophomore years and junior years... I really don't like the senior year, but it's still early to tell. maybe things might still change...



Can I be close to my friends again?

How? I miss all of themWow, sounds kind of like what happened to me -_- I lost a majority of my highschool friends to them making new friends or just moving on with their life. I keep in communication with only two and they both live too far to drive to. One is 5 hours and the other is across the country!



Sometimes I wonder if that's just normal? Maybe it's just a part of growing up?? Who knows. But in MY opinion, a true friend does not abandon one for new friends. For people like that, friendship becomes fashion.... in one season, out the other.

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