-Okay I'll try to keep it short. Im at a loss; idk what should I do. Anyway I'm 15.
So there's this guy whom I almost got together with, but anyway didnt because he asked me to be his girl just to attempt sex with me. We're both from the same school. Also there's this annual school science fair coming up. Last year I helped out as an usher. And he was one of the helpers too.
At that time, our relationship was just good friends that would text each other like every minute, and we would tell each other almost everything. It was not as awkward as it is now.
However, he asked me for 'it'. I hesitated but eventually rejected him. We didn't talk for like 6 months.
We often bumped into each other in school. He was like everywhere. There was once our eyes met accidentally, he was smiling, and I became so nervous. It was soooo awkward. But around 1 or 2 weeks ago, he suddenly texted me saying that he was responsible for whatever happened between us, and he wanted me to get all those things out of my head.
This year, the teacher in charge of the science fair hopes the helpers last year to help again. And he is going to help. I think he doesn't know that I'm helping too. FYI I signed up before him. I didn't know he was going to help.
So, my question is, should I withdraw from being a helper? If I withdraw I still have to go the fair, but as a bio student. Or should
I continue to help? I don't know omg. FYI again, the station we are going to help at is really small. And, I feel like making up with him. He's wondeful to be a girl's guy best friend. Y'know what I mean.
Anyway, thanks in advance(:stay true to yourself if this guy wants sex and your not willing to give ti to him then stay away from him we often want to be delivered from temptation but would like it to keep in touch think? you may want him as a friend but does he really want that from you, BTW yes i think you should go to the fair and help out don't let him dictate your behavior alto you'll be seeing him try to act normal if he says hello say hello if he wants a convo let him have it but don't let things get out of hand take stock of your life and live stay true to yourself like i said and all would work out well:)If you truly have or still have feelings for him, then you should make up. You'll never know how me feels until you ask him. You might feel nervous or scared, but it will all work out in the end. (:
Foremost, make it clear to him that YOU ARE NOT GOING TO SPREAD UR LEGS FOR HIS 1inch dik. But if he persists, stay clear away from him and best record several times and tell ur teacher and report him for sexual harassment. Also girl, ur befuddled by his looks and his fake personality. If he's that guy who asks for sex at 15, he's not reliable. Is he going to account for his sexual advances and actions towards u. What if he impregnate u, what is he going to do about it( it's a rhetorical q), he's going to dump for FOR ANOTHER GIRL. Young boys at his age are retards w/o any brains(esp him). Don't be distracted by his looks etc, look past those. He actually asked for sex from u, what are the chances that he also asked for sex for OTHER GIRLS in ur school, outside? Porn prolly corrupted his mindset. He DOES NOT SEE U AS A GIRL. He sees u as a SEX TOOL to satisfy his sexual urges. Also 15 is at the middle of puberty where males experience a lot of changes etc, wet dreams blah blah blah. He's brain is screwed up, for all u know, all the time he's talking to u he's fantasizing having sex with u.
I can just imagine how difficult it must be for a pretty girl to fend off the advances of interested boys . This is something every girl must face going though life and good for you that you have already made it to 15 . Some girls depending on the country or environment they live in are having babies at 11. Well, you probably have heard this before a hundred times but NO means NO and if this guy really cares for you and understands the LAW he should accept your wishes .Does he know he could end up in JAIL ?
Do you know you will end up with a unwanted REPUTATION should you give in ? The fact that all of this makes you uncomfortable means you are a GOOD girl and want to remain just that . Withdraw from the science fair project . Do whats good for you !
I think you should go to the science fair, try to be good friends with him again but if he does ask you to do it again then you should say no, and just try to stay out of the way. If you make friends with him, try to make it clear to him that you are JUST friends and you wont do it with him.
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