-'m so scared right now. I'm not a slut. My ex slipped me ecstacy at a party a few months ago by him and no i didn't press charges because i wasn't supposed to be there anyways and ii lied to my mom and said a friend gave it to me and i took it by choice. That was my first and LAST time. I'm pretty much traumatized anyways. The point is that i'm with another guy that i really like and he's a virgin and i told him that i'm a virgin before i found out about the pregnancy. How can i explain to him that i lied about being a virgin and now i'm pregnant by my ex? This SUCKS! I don't know what to do. My bff is the only one that knows. I considered myself a virgin after that night since it wasn't my decision to have sex. I've pretty much been a liar since that night. I lied to my mom and my boyfriend and now i'm pregnant and everythings falling apart. Don't say i'm too young to be involved in this but it's too late and i am. My mom knows I date and lets me so it's not your decision to tell me what to do. I just need to know how do I tell my mom and boyfriend? Please don't tell me to break up with my bf because that's not going to happen. When I was with my ex i was hanging with the wrong crowd and doing a bunch of stuff i shouldn't have. When we broke up and I got with Dion he's been helping me get it together and i've liked him since fifth grade and at this point i think i may love him. Don't start with me about being too young to love because i happen to know that's impossible. My parents were neighbors when they were in kindergarten through highschool and they've loved each other since the day my mom moved in. Anyways... PLEASE HELP!!If thats all true god bless you. i think you were very strong in wanting to forget about the past and move on from it. your pregnant now and your going to have to mature and grow up and make decisions you would have never thought you would have to be making at this age..but your going to have to stay strong and stick through it all. The right thing to do and what you really should do is just come out with the truth. you can not hide something like that. tell your parents and your boyfriend what happend. it wasnt your choice for that to happen but it was your choice to go to that place weth your ex . you have to step up to the plate and tell the truth. trust me, that is the best thing you can do. hope everything turns out okay!!Then have a abortion, you're too young to have a kid, only other way is to tell the truth.
Just tell your parents first, your boyfriend might leave you though. Please don't terminate the pregnancy if you don't need to.
I'm not going to read all that.
All I am going to say is that you need to get your life back on track..
TELL THEM THE TRUTH!!!
OMG LIEK NO WAI GIRLFRIEND
How to tell your mother and boyfriend is not your biggest problem, here. Choose what you may, but at least make an informed choice. It is extremely rare that a modern day abortion could cause enough irreversible scar tissue to prevent a future pregnancy. As to emotional trauma, it depends on the person and the circumstances. Approximately 15,000 abortions are performed every day. Just because you know one person who reacted a certain way, doesn't mean that's everyone's experience.
P.S. The last time I checked, ecstasy does not make people black out or do things they don't want to do.
Oh my... You better be trolling.
If not, I highly suggest you tell you mom and dad first, before you tell your boyfriend, as they will probably have the best advice and help for you. Tell them you have something important to tell them, sit them down in a private area, and tell them exactly what happened. Tell them you need help. You should also tell your boyfriend, but there's a possibility he will leave you, just a heads up.
See a doctor, take care of that baby, and then put him/her up for adoption, since your too young to raise a baby. You may also want to press charges on your ex, as it may count as rape.
For the love if humanity, don't kill your child!
first of all pregnancy tests could easily be wrong...so see a doctor...then tell the truth to ur mom first...tell her what relle happened that night and how it wasnt ur choice to have sex...its not your fault your pregnantt...but first u need to explain to ur mom...then explain to ur boyfriend...im 14 and i WOULDNT GET AN ABORTION..thats not even an option...u could go through with having the baby and either keep it or put it up for adoption..i would talk to ur mom be4 u talk to ur boy friend
she is your mother! she will understand you and your bf will too understand cuz he loves you only you right?? just be sure dont lie anymore,shut you lies and face the truth cuz u know its too late and before anything happens talk to your mum first then your bf.
TELL THE TRUTH! Seriously i know its hard but the best thing right now is to be completely open and honest about everything that's happened, with your mom and your boyfriend and whoever else who may be involved. Ya it's really difficult but u will be forgiven; right now you need help and the best place to get that help is from the people u care about most.
Well you should tell your boyfriend when you hang out once... And it's his decision if he wants to leave you or not. You're only 14 anyway, and if he does leave you, you have your whole life ahead of you to find someone else that will accept your baby. Everything you do has consequences, and this is one of it. And it's best to tell your mom soon. You will probably get a bunch of crap for it from your parents, but that's the right thing to do because they are the only one's who could help you. And what ever you do, don't get abortion! Have you watched 16 and pregnant? Those girls always have a hard time before they get their baby, and after too. But everything will be fine in the future. :) So just be truthful from now on, and everything will fall into its place. :) Good luck!
1. shouldn't lie, it makes things like this go a whole lot easier, remember this if there's a next time
2. obviously you tell him, the sooner you do it the easier, just make sure you tell him the whole truth
3. you still are too young, can't be too late for age to matter,
4. you don't have to break up with him...especially (sorry...has to be said) if he breaks up with you...and if that happens, there goes the whole love theory
anyways....there you go
calm down! im yonger then u cuz im 11 (almost 12 will b on 8/17) anyway culm down if u dont w to harm the baby tell ur grand parent on just ell ur mom that u NEED to tallk asap cuzz it has to do with growing up and tell her then for ur boy friend just call him meet a his house pick him up and go some were privet and say somthen like hay um i need to talk and tell u somthen i lied to u about and if hes under standing he might even wt to b the babys daddy and just tell him telling the truth works i no from experence...but if u got a dad around...i...wount tell him ust a worning
wow, that really sucks. Honestly, if you keep hiding all this, it just seems like its going to get worse. And there's going to be a point where youre big, and everyones going to know somethings up. It's only a matter of time before you actually h a v e to tell (unless, you terminate the pergnancy). Just sit them down i would do it separate and tell your bf the news. If he really cares about you the way your portait it, then he'll be understanding and help you through this. Its never good to lie to your mother, then again, things happen. Just tell her that you made a mistake that you learned from and im sure she'll come around. She's your mother, and youre her child, nothing can break a bond like that. Just own up to what you've done and gain their trust back. Its a lot to do, but it has to be done, good luck to you.
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