My friends are ditching my for my other friends!?

-I had a group of friends who were in my form, and then another group of friends who I knew quite well because we did dance and together. These people all go to my school, and I used to hang around with them pretty much equally. One day, one of my friends from one group was ill, so the other two people asked if they could sit with me and my form friends at lunch. It was fine, but then they started going off and leaving me out. It wasn't too bad at first, but the other day they did this massive sleep over thing and all went shopping and stuff and didn't invite me! They say they forgot but that makes me feel even worse because it means that I don't matter enough to them for them to remember. They always have inside jokes and stuff and it is getting really embarrassing and annoying. I don't want to make new friends because everyone else I know, apart from like 2 people (who hate each other) doesn't like me or won't talk to me. I don't know if I should talk to my "friends" about it or not...Please help





Oh, and sorry about the essay (^o^)Confront them. Ask them if there's something wrong with your friendship and vise versa.

Relax and tell them you feel left alone. Open a forum that will make your friendship greater and stronger.







I hope this helps. :)
Stand up for what you know right.



Listen to your heart's most reasonable answer. Look for it.

I'm sure you will find your path.



Good luck.
Hey buddy....:)
Wow..that's mean. I feel like you do a-lot. I hangout with a big group of girls and I usually feel like I don't matter and like if i'm left out a-lot. People don't even invite me to things personally and instead I have to figure out in the last minute. That makes me feel like poo! I say you talk to them about it without seeming like you care too much or else they can think that if you don't have them you have no one. Iv'e done this and they say I'm exaggerating but I try to do other stuff so that I won't look dependent on them. If they don't care after you told them then they're not even good friends.
Look I now it's hard on you and all, but you have to wake up and smell the fresh air these people you call "Friends" aren't really your friends, there just using you. This would be really hard on you but maybe you should just start hanging out with another group, if they come crawling back just ignore them, if worst comes to worst you end up being a loner. or you can just go and tell them how you feel it dose work but not all the time.



By the way I had the same problem, it is hard, Good Luck