How do I deal with this "friend"?

-This girl in my class went through a big argument with her regular ring of friends a few months ago.. We don't know much about each other, but she came to me when her friends ditched her.. To make things short, I helped her a lot during that tough times.. I know it sounds conceited but it's the truth.. However, now she's starting to hang out with another girl (who happened to be my sorta-enemy) in class more.. She doesn't even look or talk to me anymore! And even if she's under the impression that I'm mad at her, doesn't she have the courtesy to at least discuss it with me?? What's this? She seemed to be the kind of person that forgets about the friends that helped her.. And I'm not the first person to receive this treatment from her.



I'm just going with the flow for now, but it really piss me off that she's so ungrateful.. What should I do now? Should I stand up to her? Coz I'm sick of being the one that always tries to help but receives nothing back.forgive her.

don't have any ill will against her.



God will make her realize her mistake.
I know how you feel. What I have done about ungrateful people is to learn that the things I do for people I have to do just because they need something and I am there and can help. If they are appreciative , that is wonderful and it feels good. However, many people don't notice what you do and they take it for granted. That does not mean that you were not a big help to them. You can feel great about that.



I just do what I can and move on. It is too much work to worry about whether or not I was appreciated. hope this helps. Keep on keeping on and keep doing good deeds. It always comes back to you but usually from somewhere or someone else.
It is good you have seen that it is not just you she has treated this way!



I do believe in a saying 'If you give them enough rope they hang themselves!' so I think you are doing the right thing by raising above her behaviour and getting on and doing your own thing, as if you leave her too it people will soon realise what she is like as she will show them herself!



You are a giving person and a lot of people appreciate this in a friend and will think really highly of you for being this way!

People who are more selfish like this girl will think well of you also, but because they are that selfish they are not able to return the same treatment back!



I understand it is annoying to feel someone has used you! But you can learn from this and not change your behaviour, but you can take a step back from a situation and think does this person deserve my time and kindness!



Some people will deserve it and be greatful, so do not let this girl change you! You can be more cautious and really learn from this experience!



I think you have done the right thing to rise above her and get on with your life, as she os not worth your breath!

If you want to you could write a letter to her explaining why you are angry with her and call her whatever you want! THEN you can rip it up and bury it and think this is an experience you are putting behind you!



Now you can have this knowledge and move on to think more of yourself and be confident you are a giving person, but are also aware there are the few selfish people who may take advantage and are not worth your effort!



I hope this helps xxxxxxxxxxxx