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2011年8月4日星期四

I need friend help :(?

-There are two groups of kids at my school. The drugged/alcoholic/crazy/partying/popular group, and the nerdy/weird kids. I don't fit in either of these groups, but because high school pretty makes you choose one, I chose the nerdy/weird kids. (I'm not exactly interested in having sex and partying every weekend.) All of my friends recently have become so depressed, lazy, and dull. We never hang out, we never go anywhere, and we really never talk. I always invite my friends to come over, or to concerts, the mall, the pool, etc. No matter if we are seeing their favorite band or anything really, they are still so sad, and almost acting as though they are on drugs (even though they are not). If you don't understand what I am describing, they act absent minded, don't talk, don't smile, and are kind of concentrating on staring off into the distance at the oh so interesting bird in the sky or something. I don't even want to hang out with my so called "friends" anymore. I did have a group of friends at the start of the year, but they all became so competitive, always made fun of me, and tried to make my life miserable... So now I only have some friends from middle school, and a few from my high school left; and they're the dull, uninteresting kids! The problem though, is that I go to a preppy high school, so everyone is kind of mean; and the kids who aren't mean, are dull! I know that it is not just me, because they are like this with everyone. I don't know what to do anymore. My parents are sick of taking me places (which I totally get), and I cannot drive yet. I am bored. I want to make new friends. Although, I do not have very many options. I hope this made some sense. Any ideas? :/wow, maybe your friends are zombies? but if you really want to make new friends and dont have many choices, make your own unique group!!! maybe some people would join and become your friends. be your self and be unique. thats when people start to notice you. :) hope this helps.Do you think you could go to a different school? Im sure there has to be some normal non nerdy not mean kids in your school. Try to talk to people that you've never talked to before and maybe you will realize they aren't so bad. Good luck!:)
How about joining clubs at school that interest you? Or even find some kind of after school community thing you can do. Like volunteering somewhere.
Ok you made a good choice picking the geeks. Get those dull geeks and turn them into something else! If they don't wanna hang out then try to reel them in. If they are complete losers then start small and change them. Screw the party people. They are ruining themselves. If everyone is mean to u get help. U may look like a stuck up ***** telling on everybody but remember that u aren't. If your old friends are dull make them get off the couch and drag them someplace! As for your parents, they should be tired of taking u places but they shouldnt admit it! If your parents refuse to take u someplace then sit down and talk to them. Tell them that your life and friends are so hard and your trying to be a good friend but your parents are holing u back. They might understand if they are good parents. But remember to loosen up sometimes too! Go party once in a while! It's ok! Make a group of your own! Get some party people and the coolest geeks and there u go! A perfect group! I'm confusing but I hope I helped!

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