How do i deal with this girl?

-Hey guys.there's this girl in my grade that i have a LONG history with. we first became close when i we were in the same 5th grade class. she seemed like the perfect "match" for me. (the perfect best friend for me) she was everything i ever wanted my best friend to be, she was pretty, smart, funny, and just awesome.



then i started realizing something about her. she would always make me do things, like go get her something or too help her do this or that. i also realized that i was scared of her. i mean it seems kinda weird but i didnt want to "disappoint" her. it was kind of like i wasnt showing her who i really was. my REAL personality is someone who loves to talk really loud and crack jokes and talking to guys and dressing really girly, but when i was with her, i did none of those things because all of those things she hates. whenever she gets mad at me, she says mean things and ignores me. once she even said "ill give you all the things you gave me because anything that you touched makes me wanna puke"



once, my ex best friend was wearing these pretty pink boots, and she was all "ew what the heck" but i mean that was only in 5th grade so i guess it really doesnt matter. but still. in 6th grade, we remained best friends but we werent in the same class. whenever we fought, we would ALWAYS make up and become friends again. i just kept thinking that one day i wouldnt be scared of her anymore. but i always was. we had one class that we were together in (6th grade) and she made some friends of her own in her homeroom class, so she would ignore me and hang out with her other friends. sometimes she was nice, sometimes she wasnt.



that year, a lot of drama happened. her friends would tell her that i "stuck to her because of popularity." i mean i have to admit she was pretty popular, but i didnt stick to her because of that. i stuck to her coz i really loved her as a friend. and i put up with all the crap and mean things she said to me. and my ex best friend was the one who told her lies about me. she was the one who tore me and my ex best friend apart in the first place, and now THEY were best friends. she would get mad at me for the most random reasons. she was so mad because i was "ignoring" her when the truth was i didnt even hear her calling me in the first place.



i met some friends in my class near the middle of the year, because in the front half, a lot of people ditched me. those are my REAL friends. i could be myself around them, and they wouldnt judge. i love being with them because they are so AWESOME:)



then in 7th grade there was trouble, because my "best friend" and my real friends we all in the same class as me. it was bad, because i wanted to hang out with all of them, but it wouldnt work. my real friends didnt really like my best friend because there was just something about her that they didnt like. i couldnt really be myself around my best friend unless i was with my real friends. to be honest i really just wanted to hang out with my real friends. she always treats me like crap.



finally one day, i stood up to her and fought back when we were arguing. she always starts swearing at me and says a lot of hurtful things. she told me that she didnt even like me that much in 6th grade, when at that time, she told me i was her best friend. i seriously couldnt believe her. she told me that i flirt a lot when shes the one who talks to boys all the time and does freakishly nice things for them. if i even talk to a guy, she thinks im flirting. she calls me her best friend and she always believes other people when they tell her lies about me. she NEVER believes me, her "best friend".



so i ended up ditching her and hanging out with my real friends. i was so happy because i could just be myself and not have to worry about pleasing someone.



now, she keeps saying shes sorry and how she wants to be best friends again and that there is "no one else like me" but the truth is, she tells everyone that. sometimes i feel bad for her, but i really dont want to be her best friend again after i think of all the things she did to make me cry.



i really have no idea what to do....



please help meeee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!





thank you SO MUCH for your time, you dont know how much it means to me:)(Sorry this is long) Your friend isn't a very good one. If you feel sorry for her sometimes then just tell her to be friends again but not best friends. You should play with your real friends more often because you can be yourself. Your real friends have a right to not like your "best friend" because if i was your friend then i wouldn't like her. Tell her that she did mean all those things that she said to you during those arguments and if that happened again then you won't ever be her friend again. If you were her 'best friend" then how come she never believed you and believed your ex-friend? She doesn't know that a best friend is better than a friend and that two best friends should be at the same level. she getting mad at you for random reasons is stupid and thinking you are flirting with boys when you are talking to them is also stupid. She talks to boys and help them by doing good deeds for them, it seems as though SHE'S flirting with them. She doesn't know what she's talking about and I believe that being best friends with her is a bad idea. She shouldn't be asking you to do things for her and you shouldn't be scared of her. If you are brave and people believe in you (i do!) then you should stand up to her like what you did in the very last argument you had. Good job!! Hope I helpedit sounds like she doesn't deserve you. this is classic, on person is very mean to the the other and the other finally cracks and leaves then the first one realizes they need the other person but they won't come back. if that makes sense. keep going as you are and be friends with people who make you happy not ones who hurt you
maybe you should ask someone face to face because i can almost guarentee the people on here will not read that massive question you just wrote. yahoo answers is good for say " how do i get dog poo out of the carpet?" or something of the sort. catch my drift?