Why does nobody like me?

-Im not that bad-looking, and im shy when people first met me (but who isnt), then i tend to come out of my shell and im really friendly to people.

But some of my current friends think that im too much of a free spirit because i tell people what i think about them to their face, i mean, isnt that better than saying what u think to their face than saying it behind their backs.

ps, apparently im also childish and annoying, but i dont wanna stop being ME, cos if i act all serious and stuff, it wont feel like meBe free. -Tell you why.

All those so-called friends aren't all that good of friends if you can't confront them with a problem between the two of you. Instead, these same people would go behind your back and cause trouble.



Some friends they turn out to be.



Live your life on your terms, and forget the back-stabbers.(are you a cancer?) anyway being up front and blunt may sometimes be considered as rude or mean think about the times and situation in which you did this was it appropriate and are you being considerate about others feelings? if not then what ppl really have a problem with you need to learn to listen, access the situation and think before you speak this may help its okay to be shy at 1st and out spoken later if ppl think that your behavior is childish however it may really be that way do a rain check and see what you can change note not everyone is going to like you the best thing you can do is be true to yourself and live life :)
People love friends who only tell them positive issues of their person but me i like the truth and i have honest friends who are not only there to please me in words , they can't speak on my back but tell me things which are right with me, that's why i have a mental progress, the challenge is the kind of friends you are used to if they are not good friends ehhh.....but you don't have to bother much you are special in what you are and having friends with whom you won't easily exchange truth is useless.
You shouldn't talk about people behind their backs anyway. And you shouldn't tell people what you think of them unless they ask you. If you don't like someone then don't spend time with them. Try being honest but tactful eg. 'Does this outfit make me look fat?' Don't answer 'Yeah you look disgusting' instead say ' I think there are more flattering styles that would suit you'. Do you see what I mean? It's OK to tell the truth but not in a hurtful way.
Don't pay any attention to the people that are saying stuff behind your back. You will find someone who likes you for you. Eventually everybody does.
I love childish girls lol :P Makes me feel like myself. Don't stop being urself, it's 'wunnerful' . Dun care those girls, i'm sure they're gonna be plenty of others who will like u for who u are ^^
I like you (:
Just be yourself :)