-Well in April, I switched schools. I had this amazing bestfriend & we did everything together. We were inseparable. Honestly, I could trust her with my life. That's how close we were. When I was leaving the other school, she promised she would never forget me & we would always be bestfriends. but since I moved, we hardly ever talk & it feels like I don't even know her anymore. I don't want to lose her. What should I do ?I have been through the exact same thing, and it is tough I know. Just try and keep in contact as much as you can but do not bombard her because then it will feel like you are too clingy. As you get older being together with the same person 24/7 gets a bit annoying. Have some time for yourself or try and make new friends. You shouldn't have to be one of those girls that only has one single friend, throughout your teenage years you are going to need more than 1 good friend, trust me.
You will probably make and loose a lot of friends throughout high school and this is normal, all you can do is be yourself and hope to make some more really close friends, but do not suffocate them as they will get annoyed with you. Keep in touch with this old friend but also give her space, she could be very upset still that you have left and that may be why she has limited contact with you at the moment, just give it time. :-)If you can trust her so much, bring this up in a letter or when your talking on the phone. She most likely feels the exact same way about you, and doesn't want to lose you either. Make an effort to call or text everyday, and see each other (if possible) every month or few months. Don't be afraid to just randomly call her, she'll be so happy to hear from you. Good luck!
It's really hard when it comes to the point that we're talking DISTANCE. That's what makes (two) people separate. You should try to give her a call/ ring on the phone or have her wall posted on Facebook. You two needs to do a hangout to catch up on things. Spending time would be the perfect one to do. Awkwardness would be there since you haven't seen each other for months I think, but nah! you two should hang-out and have fun. (Friday girl's night out)
That happens sometime people start falling out of touch but just try to text her or call her everyday find some website you two can hang out or chat on send photots and everything just dont stop trying to talk to her or eventually you just wont talk at all
you know Rory i was in the same situation.it is an awful feeling.all this distance play a big role.but if you loose her maybe she isn't so true friend?
call her or email her and do some catching up it's the best way to keep friendships from falling apart
Try calling her, or someone reach her online to talk?
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