-all the nasty people ive come across i just wondered do they know their horrible like do they think like "im a mean person!" like do they decide to be nasty 2 you even though youve done nothing wrong?I think the real answer to this question is - it depends on the person.
Yes, some people not only know they are mean, but I think they honestly enjoy it on some level - maybe they feel powerful knowing they can wreck a person's day or whatever. But if you can get past getting your feelings hurt, you need to realize truly mean people are going to be lonely one day, unless they change.
I also think that sometimes people can do what we think of as mean without realizing it. Sometimes they might say something without thinking or maybe not really see that something they are saying or doing is mean and/or hurtful.
I read something just the other day that was talking about forgiveness and how when we forgive people we are really doing it for ourselves as much as for them. If we are holding grudges and stuff, we are the ones who get tired (carrying grudges and hurt feelings was being compared to carrying a sack of rocks around). When we lay it aside and move on, it makes us happier and better. However, it also said that there are some people who don't give up the thing that caused the problem in the first place (being mean or whatever) - that they return to that behavior over and over and over again (the example was from a verse in the Bible where it said something about 'like a dog returns to its vomit' which was gross, but a very effective mental picture). Those people, it said are the ones where you forgive, but forgiveness does not mean forgetfulness. Forgive and remember. You move on.
Sorry so long - got on the soapbox thing there.... good luck.I admit I used to be an absolute HORRIBLE person and I knew the whole time that I was horrible.
I was usually mean to people who never did anything to me and I decided to do that because I knew I could get away with it and it would let all my anger out even though I knew I would feel awful later it just felt so good to be mean in the moment.
I think from personal experience people are horrible either because people are also horrible to them or because they are insecure and have low self esteem.
So all in all yes, horrible people know their horrible, but the worst part is, there hurting so much on the inside that they just dont care.
Soem ppl decide to be so.
Someothers are young.
Do you think I am horrible ?
I told this girl that she should nt ve cut her hair.DO you think that LATERI did the right thing ?
Pls read what I did later, and tell me if it was horrible.
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it depends, most do it unconsciously, people like in the government do it because they know they are evil, people are scared to admit they are a bad person
Generally most people don't know themselves..they probably think that they're superior to everyone else...thing is to not take it seriously as they don't make the rules or have the only correct opinions.
no they don't because they are so insecure about themselves they don't even no when they are hurting someone else
know their horrible? I don't think they have one, but if they do they probably know it.
yes... yes we do
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