-Sorry its so long
Ok so i like this girl. I talked to her like 2 times at first and a few times on facebook. Then i took a huge plunge out of no where and told her i liked her. but on facebook :/ and i said it might be awkward but she said it was ok since we didn't really know each other. Then she said she wasn't looking to be in a relationship right now and that friends was good. so i said ok.
Then i tried sending her messages but she would never reply. When ever she would post something and i commented, she removed my comment. Anything from a picture to little post. I just ended up liking a few of her pictures but that was it. A few days later she removed me as a friend and i tried to send a friend request. Then about a week later she just blocked me. :'(
all of this happened in february and we have actually talked a couple times more since then. I just ask how her day was and that's about it. I said i was sorry that it may have been creepy what i said online. she said it was ok. then i asker her again and this time said it may have been better if i said it i person. she said it was cool and i said bye but she just walked into her class. then the next day i said i know you said it was cool but i think i should say it in person and she said what and i asked her if she knew what i was talking about. she said no then said bye and went into her next class.
I want to get to know her more next year at try even harder to make her mine. or better said make myself hers. if not then at least talk more and become really good friends. i really need help.
If it means anything, whenever we talked, she was always smiling. on the last day of school, i was walking to class when her friend yelled her name as soon as i walked by. I thought she might want to talk to me or something. then we walked by each other and she smiled at me. but we didnt talk.
Whenever we did talk she seemed pretty interested and pretty happy when we talk. I would say something and she would smile and keep talking about it. not long conversations but short and sweet responses. like normal friend talks.
and when we talked it was like a couple weeks apart exept for the end of school. and remember, it was in february when she blocked me so its been a while.
and dont say forget her cuz i dream about her and dont say its her loss cuz it would be my loss. jus help me on what to say or do.
SHOULD I ASK HER FRIEND ON CHAT IF THE GIRL I LIKE THINKS IM A CREEP OR SOMETHING. the girl i might ask is the one that yelled her name at the end of the year. should i ask her or ask another friend of hers. the problem is that i dont know any of her friends very well. they are just friends of mine on facebook. we never really talked before. and im kinda scared she will think im being creepy too.
how do i get a hold of her (the girl i like). should i ask her friend for her number too or should i just wait and hope i see her again. i wanted to ask her to warped tour as friends to get to know her but i dont know how to get a hold of her.school doesnt start till a week after the concert and i may not get to see her by then. and she will be a senior so its her last year here. i just wann be friends and maybe convince her to give me a shot at being her bf. please, i need help!!
i really want to fix all this. not into her liking me, but to make things like they were before.I like your 'ask the friend' idea. I honestly believe it might be better to go behind the scenes and figure out what's up. How she's acting seems kinda odd... I definitely wouldn't text her without her giving you the number. That might put her a little on edge.? But yeah, ask the friend.. seem chill about it, not insistent, because there's a 99% chance that she's gonna go tell the girl you like about your guys' conversation. Be yourself. ((: And wait it out a little too.. There is hope! Good luck ^-^I had a similar story once and its actually still ongoing. My advice is try to talk to her every three days and she will adventually respond. Forget warp tour with her ask someone else. When school comes around be assertive but NOT creepy. Play it cool. Become someone she wants to talk to when she needs something or even if she is jus thinking about you. After that don't talk to her through texting or Facebook only at school and then get her more interested in you and tell her how you feel again after that. Good luck hope this helps
Btw I'm not a dude and I'm still young 16.. I just have a fake name.
You should get to know her friend a little bit . Text her or go on facebook and chat so her friend won't think your using her to get to know the girl. Then ask her "does (girls name) think I'm a creep?" and girls love it when u add a smiley face ! I suggest you use ^_^. When u ask her friend.
okay so...
she's in a state where she's on edge about her feelings. you probably freaked her out and came on too strong in feburary. but now your this really nice guy she enjoys being around. you shouldnt push for her number or push for her to hang out with her. i know you dont want to hear this, but your going to need to be patient and let things fall into place. dont ask for her number until at least the second moth of school and dont ask her to hang out until at least december.
I would ask one of your friends to ask one of her friends to ask her if you guys could be friends on fb and/or Warped just as friends. I really hope this helps because i can tell you really love her. :)
Dude I read this and I SWEAR it sounded like I wrote this excluding the creeping part online (no offense)
As a guy, I'll tell you I was hurt that the girl I tried with ignored me but in person more than online. What I did was talk to her friends as a friend. Not to get her jealous and then I'd ignore her. Act like her ignoring me meant nothing. After a while SHE began to go after me. But honestly it always doesn't work out. We never got together
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