Can i get a girls advice on this? Beware it is very long :(?

-Sorry its so long



Ok so i like this girl. I talked to her like 2 times at first and a few times on facebook. She and i are alot alike because we are BOTH SHY around new people but really outgoing with people we know well. Then i took a huge plunge out of no where and told her i liked her. but on facebook :/ and i said it might be awkward but she said it was ok since we didn't really know each other. Then she said she wasn't looking to be in a relationship right now and that friends was good. so i said ok.



Then i tried sending her messages but she would never reply. When ever she would post something and i commented, she removed my comment. Anything from a picture to little post. I just ended up liking a few of her pictures but that was it. A few days later she removed me as a friend and i tried to send a friend request. Then about a week later she just blocked me. :'(



all of this happened in february and we have actually talked a couple times more since then. I just ask how her day was and that's about it. I said i was sorry that it may have been creepy what i said online. she said it was ok. then i asker her again and this time said it may have been better if i said it i person. she said it was cool and i said bye but she just walked into her class. then the next day i said i know you said it was cool but i think i should say it in person and she said what and i asked her if she knew what i was talking about. she said no then said bye and went into her next class.



I want to get to know her more next year at try even harder to make her mine. or better said make myself hers. if not then at least talk more and become really good friends. i really need help.



If it means anything, whenever we talked, she was always smiling. on the last day of school, i was walking to class when her friend yelled her name as soon as i walked by. I thought she might want to talk to me or something. then we walked by each other and she smiled at me. but we didnt talk.



Whenever we did talk she seemed pretty interested and pretty happy when we talk. I would say something and she would smile and keep talking about it. not long conversations but short and sweet responses. like normal friend talks.



and when we talked it was like a couple weeks apart exept for the end of school. and remember, it was in february when she blocked me so its been a while.



and dont say forget her cuz i dream about her and dont say its her loss cuz it would be my loss. jus help me on what to say or do.



SHOULD I ASK HER FRIEND ON CHAT IF THE GIRL I LIKE THINKS IM A CREEP OR SOMETHING. the girl i might ask is the one that yelled her name at the end of the year. should i ask her or ask another friend of hers. the problem is that i dont know any of her friends very well. they are just friends of mine on facebook. we never really talked before. and im kinda scared she will think im being creepy too.



how do i get a hold of her (the girl i like). should i ask her friend for her number too or should i just wait and hope i see her again. i wanted to ask her to warped tour as friends to get to know her but i dont know how to get a hold of her.school doesnt start till a week after the concert and i may not get to see her by then. and she will be a senior so its her last year here. i just wann be friends and maybe convince her to give me a shot at being her bf. please, i need help!!



i really want to fix all this. not into her liking me, but to make things like they were beforehonestly, coming from a girl, your wrong move was sending her the initial "i like you" kinda thing on facebook. if a guy ever sent me a text/email/im/ fb chat message saying that, there wouldnt be a chance in hell. have you no real chivalry? if you had honeslty felt strongly for her, you would have made the effort to talk to her more, hang out with her more, walk her to class more, etc. and not only talk to her a few times and then OVER THE INTERNET tell her you had feelings for her. if a guy had done that to me, and then tried to talk to me, i wouldnt even give him the time of day. its so lame, and downright poor gentlemen-like. the more you tried to talk to her, probably the creepier you became to her. leave her alone for a few weeks. i mean, honestly, leave her alone. no talking, no walking her to class, nothing. and then when it seems like it's fine again, be polite. forget what you said, what she did, all that and just start over. be nice, and avoid anything to remind her of what happened. if you dream about her, you want her, and you want to be hers, then just lay back a little.lesson learned: didn't like it that you said it online. therefore, you should stop bugging (or talking) her through facebook. it seems like the girl is like me. so, gather your courage up. be natural on making friends with her friends or that friend who called her. but not too confident, just the way you are is sweeeet and giggly. and then ask them to your plan. you can do it, alright? update me please :D



just go do it. take care! (:
you should just leave her alone so she doesn't think you're wierd and clingy just become friends with her first once you get back to school and do things to make her like you and once you feel like she likes you just tell her you like her more then friends