Anything good to say about how this woman has treated me up me?

-I'm currently getting over a female coworker who I used to work with for 3 years.

She's 38 and I am 26.

I worked with her with a big grocery store.

She's a single mother.

The last time I saw her was this past February and she instantly hugged me.

Until 5 weeks ago, I kept in touch with her through text messages-I'd usually just send her jokes and flirty messages.

In the second to last message I sent her, I told her, "I'm late telling you this but "Happy Birthday."

I remembered her birthday was in June (I got birthday presents for her last year).

She didn't care to get back to me.

The last thing she told me in a text message was, "Thanks" when I told her "congrats" to her daughter graduating from elementary school.

She blew off all 3 messages I sent her last month.

Before last month, she would blow off some of my text messages and has never apologized.

She's gone on twitter and face book hours after I've text messaged her (she told me she's a face book junkie).

She's never asked me how I am or what I am up to in the times she's replied back to me.

She's ONLY talked about herself in some of her replies to me.

4 months ago, it seemed like she wanted me to ask her out when she told me in text messages, "I hope you have a girlfriend with all these lines. It wouldn't be a bad thing if you did. Your lines are nice. I was just wondering. I've been single a longtime."

I ended up asking her out to a concert to see a singer I know she likes and she ended up lying to me that she would get off from work close to 10 pm the night of the concert.

In the 3 years I worked with her, she never got off past 8 pm.

She didn't apologize for not seeing the concert with me nor did she ask me how the concert went or if I went with another woman.

I ended up not going to the concert.

I took a risk asking her out because I know she gets hit on by guys but she's picky and thinks her "dream" man is at a gym.

It made sense to ask her out because we kept flirting though text messages even though I no longer work with her.

The father of her daughter left her the moment she got pregnant.

Again, this is a woman who I worked with for 3 years.

Me and her flirted at times when we worked together.

I'd tease her too and give her funny nicknames.

Last November, she looked like she wanted me to kiss her but I didn't want things to be awkward so I playfully poked her stomach.

I always helped her out a lot at work as she would call on me to help her out even though I worked a different position than her (she never helped me with anything when I worked with her).

I helped her out despite knowing she's lazy about work and would always complain about work.

I'd carry her groceries out to her car at times even though she didn't ask me to.

I've given her gifts such as giving her valentines 2 years in a row, birthday presents last year and Halloween candy meant for her and her daughter.

Last Halloween, she appreciated the candy because she told me she didn't have time to take her daughter trick-or-treating for some reason.

I've told her she was one of my favorite coworkers which I now regret.

I ended up deleting her cell phone #.She sounds like someone who isn't interested in you but likes to mess around with guys because she's a single mum and has freedom now. Probably.



I don't really have anything good to say about her, by the sounds of it, she's quite false and manipulative.